What's a man to do?

So you live with a woman for nine years, she isn't into anything sexually like you are. Hates being recorder, hates doing to much during sex, holding her legs up being on her back and so on.

You're offered some nice pussy? She's willing to ride that dick like crazy, suck it like a got damn blow pop? She wants you to nut on her face, in and on her ass, in her mouth. ... Wait all the things your girl wont do? Well this is a puzzling choice.. What's a man to do?