90 Days in the xHamster cage

A few personal observations and thoughts after 90 days of xHamstering

I've met some very nice people. Genuinely friendly, grown-up people who really seem to have their shit together.

I've even met a small number of very special people of whom I've grown quite fond.

Sadly, though, I'd have to admit that I'm greatly disappointed in the self-entitled attitudes that seem to saturate the the vast majority of the community interactions here. This is based on reading a boatload of comments. I guess I shouldn't be surprised at the "I'm only here to rub one out really quickly and after that I'm gone" displays on a porn site.

I've spent more years than I care to admit studying how people interact online. It's been a hobby of mine since the online communities started to flourish. Without fail, it happens in each of them; people losing sight of the fact that the other people are indeed people and not computer-generated entertainment.

Maybe my sample size is too small and I'm drawing completely wrong conclusions.