Chastity Device (Cages): Orgasm control and more.

The relationship I have with My sub is not romantic and I do not expect to have all My needs met by one partner especially since the One I love, not My sub, lives so far away. I think it is ridiculous to impose the restriction of singular sexual loyalty on someone else. I require My sub to wear a cage not as a way to keep him loyal/honest, but as a way to keep him focused on his service to me. It is purely a signal to the sub that I, the Mistress, am in control and have the power to impose My will. If the sub attempts to remove the cage prior to My direction, or in a situation sub desires release and does so without My permission, I turn My back on that sub. Only in extremely, very, very, very, very, very rare situation that once I withdraw My favor from them I will even consider extending it again.

As a way to allow the sub to prepare his mind for the submission I have him write the answers to a series of questions. Next I require the sub to write a formal request for consideration of submission including 24/7 chastity. Once after these are performed to My satisfaction (if they are not up to par the sub is required to make corrections/changes and resubmit the documents for My review/approval) the sub is required to wear his cock and balls bound in string as a preliminary stage of the long-term chastity. I require My sub demonstrate to Me he recognizes My domination and willingly seeks opportunities to serve Me eagerly and with a high degree of enthusiasm. As implied above chastity is a physical AND mental exploration-- both aspects must be open to the process otherwise there is no actual submission and the service borders on worthlessness.