Ejaculation vs. Semen Retention - Part.1
My Personal View
Is ejaculation really important in order to have great sex? I used to think so, that’s what sex was for me when I was really young. But with the years, with experience I did change my mind. I now approach sex almost the same way I approach life: “it’s all about the journey, not the destination”. Let’s not make the mistake of thinking that ejaculation and orgasm are the same thing and that they depend on each other (I’ll come back on this topic). Of course, an ejaculation every once in a while is nice, the more I hold it the better it feels and the bigger the load will get. And it’s also healthy.
I like pleasure, I like to swim in pleasure. I like women and I love to please women. I like sex and I want a lot of sex. What I like about sex is the experience of sex itself.
I love to be with a woman, feel her body, her heath, smell her essence, taste her body, give her pleasure. I love the feeling and emotions that I get when having sex. I like and need to get into her mind, know what she likes or dislike in order to better please her.
If I like something and it makes me feel good, I don’t want it to finish too soon. I want to prolong that experience for as long as I can. This is a basic human instinct.
That’s basically why, if I have a choice I am not the fast fuck kind of man, I like to take my time, I like long intense sessions.
Ejaculation is the end of all this, or at least it forces me to take a break. And it’s not just a physical break, it’s an emotional break too. Once I’m done I’m ready for something else.
So, over the years, I’ve learned to hold my ejaculation. And now I can have sex for hours, and go for days, without having the need to ejaculate. Some might not understand this, it may seem like I’m preventing myself to experience pleasure.
Men might not understand because many still think that the only goal of sex is to release the semen (and from a natural and reproductive point of view it is indeed). Some women might blame themselves for the lack of ejaculation and they might think that I didn’t enjoy the sex. But the reality it’s quite the opposite. By holding the ejaculation I can enjoy and experience pleasure better and for a longer time, the erections get stronger after every pushed-back ejaculation, I have even more desire and passion to dedicate to my woman and I am always ready for sex.
Let’s be clear, because I can last longer it doesn’t mean I have to have sex with penetration and exhaust my companion for hours. The only goal here is to prolong the whole experience of sex. Let’s not forget that the physical part of sex is just a minimal percentage of the whole experience. Sex is great primarily because of its emotional implications. And ejaculation affect both the physical and emotional realms in a very powerful way: it puts them on hold too.
I'd like to know what's your opinion on this topic.
unbridled-libertine
Read more on: http://unbridled-libertine.tumblr.com
Is ejaculation really important in order to have great sex? I used to think so, that’s what sex was for me when I was really young. But with the years, with experience I did change my mind. I now approach sex almost the same way I approach life: “it’s all about the journey, not the destination”. Let’s not make the mistake of thinking that ejaculation and orgasm are the same thing and that they depend on each other (I’ll come back on this topic). Of course, an ejaculation every once in a while is nice, the more I hold it the better it feels and the bigger the load will get. And it’s also healthy.
I like pleasure, I like to swim in pleasure. I like women and I love to please women. I like sex and I want a lot of sex. What I like about sex is the experience of sex itself.
I love to be with a woman, feel her body, her heath, smell her essence, taste her body, give her pleasure. I love the feeling and emotions that I get when having sex. I like and need to get into her mind, know what she likes or dislike in order to better please her.
If I like something and it makes me feel good, I don’t want it to finish too soon. I want to prolong that experience for as long as I can. This is a basic human instinct.
That’s basically why, if I have a choice I am not the fast fuck kind of man, I like to take my time, I like long intense sessions.
Ejaculation is the end of all this, or at least it forces me to take a break. And it’s not just a physical break, it’s an emotional break too. Once I’m done I’m ready for something else.
So, over the years, I’ve learned to hold my ejaculation. And now I can have sex for hours, and go for days, without having the need to ejaculate. Some might not understand this, it may seem like I’m preventing myself to experience pleasure.
Men might not understand because many still think that the only goal of sex is to release the semen (and from a natural and reproductive point of view it is indeed). Some women might blame themselves for the lack of ejaculation and they might think that I didn’t enjoy the sex. But the reality it’s quite the opposite. By holding the ejaculation I can enjoy and experience pleasure better and for a longer time, the erections get stronger after every pushed-back ejaculation, I have even more desire and passion to dedicate to my woman and I am always ready for sex.
Let’s be clear, because I can last longer it doesn’t mean I have to have sex with penetration and exhaust my companion for hours. The only goal here is to prolong the whole experience of sex. Let’s not forget that the physical part of sex is just a minimal percentage of the whole experience. Sex is great primarily because of its emotional implications. And ejaculation affect both the physical and emotional realms in a very powerful way: it puts them on hold too.
I'd like to know what's your opinion on this topic.
unbridled-libertine
Read more on: http://unbridled-libertine.tumblr.com
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