One of xHamster's great mysteries
I signed into my profile this evening and found a private message waiting for me - always a treat since it's from someone I've met here before. Once in a while, it's even flirty!
I clicked on the message and found it to be from [NAME WITHHELD]. I had found her profile from one of her videos she had posted. I looked at her other vids, then her personal photos (tantalizing), and decided "I'll send her an invite".
Her message read: "Thanks for looking at me - please see profile, no more males."
I've sent out invites to hundreds, if not thousands of people since I became a member here at xHamster. And I've been fortunate enough to warrant permission from 600+ women who decided "yes".
Out of this great number of women, I've only gotten to know about five fellow xHam members on a personal basis. We leave each other messages and if our schedules mesh, we talk online about mundane topics like masturbation, oral sex, orgasms that last - got your attention? Good.
I can understand certain xHam female members who are so popular they cannot add any additional friends. There are bisexual women and lesbians who have profiles with "NO MEN" in bold print - I respect them for putting it right up front.
Then there's the a group of women, of which [NAME WITHHELD] is a member, that have both male and female friends visible on their friends list but request "no men". It's so contradictory and illogical. But hey - it's a free world (for now) and people have the right to do that.
What makes this even more sad is that I probably would have left a "thanks for adding me as a friend" comment at [NAME WITHHELD]'s profile and she never would have heard from me again. Maybe we could have talked down the road, left messages for each other, or pass one lone evening chatting.
[NAME WITHHELD], thanks for taking the five seconds to bang out that message to me. That's five seconds more than some people care to do - and in some cases, that's all it takes to make a friend.
I clicked on the message and found it to be from [NAME WITHHELD]. I had found her profile from one of her videos she had posted. I looked at her other vids, then her personal photos (tantalizing), and decided "I'll send her an invite".
Her message read: "Thanks for looking at me - please see profile, no more males."
I've sent out invites to hundreds, if not thousands of people since I became a member here at xHamster. And I've been fortunate enough to warrant permission from 600+ women who decided "yes".
Out of this great number of women, I've only gotten to know about five fellow xHam members on a personal basis. We leave each other messages and if our schedules mesh, we talk online about mundane topics like masturbation, oral sex, orgasms that last - got your attention? Good.
I can understand certain xHam female members who are so popular they cannot add any additional friends. There are bisexual women and lesbians who have profiles with "NO MEN" in bold print - I respect them for putting it right up front.
Then there's the a group of women, of which [NAME WITHHELD] is a member, that have both male and female friends visible on their friends list but request "no men". It's so contradictory and illogical. But hey - it's a free world (for now) and people have the right to do that.
What makes this even more sad is that I probably would have left a "thanks for adding me as a friend" comment at [NAME WITHHELD]'s profile and she never would have heard from me again. Maybe we could have talked down the road, left messages for each other, or pass one lone evening chatting.
[NAME WITHHELD], thanks for taking the five seconds to bang out that message to me. That's five seconds more than some people care to do - and in some cases, that's all it takes to make a friend.
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