Eight in 8 months
One of the worst parts of moving to an new area, let alone a new country, is not having any familiarity with the dating or club scene. Sadly the most effective way to arrange a casual hook up has been through Cragslist, xHamster, and adult friend finder. As most of you, I'm sure, are aware that means sorting through a mountain of bullshit fakes, flakes, and illiterate morons.
So far in the 8 months she has been over there we've been able to arrange 8 meets in that time, only half of which were worth the effort. Two of which where from this site billyblanks, and as mentioned in the previous post shadow2341. There was a third, but considering he could barely get it up and when he did managed two strokes before popping his load I'll just leave his name out of it.
This is already starting to devolve into a rant which is not what I intended when I started out. I originally started this in response to one of the most common questions I get, which is how to you make arrangements for your wife.
Rather than spout a bunch of bullshit the truth, while not very encouraging, is I spend a lot of time weeding out A LOT of bullshit. For every valid response you get expect 20-30 complete imbeciles to respond. Whether it is CL, AFF, OBC, or whatever other dating site every ad includes not interested in white guys, NO EXCEPTIONS. Within the first 3 hours, guaranteed I will delete at least 15 responses "Will you settle for a big white dick" or some variation. This is an unfortunate consequence of not having an appropriate venue for meeting potential hookups. It is just one you have to suck up and trudge through. Even with all the bullshit to get to the point of meeting someone she has had some of the best one offs and ongoing fuck buddies through this type of setup. Admittedly being able to go to a club with a greater selection is still her preferred method, unfortunately when discretion, or in her case the disgusting nature of the clubs there effectively rules that option out.
Bottom line be specific and genuine with what you are looking for and expect. Use common sense when meeting for the first time. Absolutely do not give out personal information, set up a separate email account, or two, along with a skype or separate burner phone. This may seem strange, but we have had a few instances where she gave out her main email or cell number and things got a little out of hand. Yes there are actually guys that can't grasp the concept of no strings attached and became emotionally attached, even after one night.
Don't give up, this is probably the hardest as it can get very discouraging.
So far in the 8 months she has been over there we've been able to arrange 8 meets in that time, only half of which were worth the effort. Two of which where from this site billyblanks, and as mentioned in the previous post shadow2341. There was a third, but considering he could barely get it up and when he did managed two strokes before popping his load I'll just leave his name out of it.
This is already starting to devolve into a rant which is not what I intended when I started out. I originally started this in response to one of the most common questions I get, which is how to you make arrangements for your wife.
Rather than spout a bunch of bullshit the truth, while not very encouraging, is I spend a lot of time weeding out A LOT of bullshit. For every valid response you get expect 20-30 complete imbeciles to respond. Whether it is CL, AFF, OBC, or whatever other dating site every ad includes not interested in white guys, NO EXCEPTIONS. Within the first 3 hours, guaranteed I will delete at least 15 responses "Will you settle for a big white dick" or some variation. This is an unfortunate consequence of not having an appropriate venue for meeting potential hookups. It is just one you have to suck up and trudge through. Even with all the bullshit to get to the point of meeting someone she has had some of the best one offs and ongoing fuck buddies through this type of setup. Admittedly being able to go to a club with a greater selection is still her preferred method, unfortunately when discretion, or in her case the disgusting nature of the clubs there effectively rules that option out.
Bottom line be specific and genuine with what you are looking for and expect. Use common sense when meeting for the first time. Absolutely do not give out personal information, set up a separate email account, or two, along with a skype or separate burner phone. This may seem strange, but we have had a few instances where she gave out her main email or cell number and things got a little out of hand. Yes there are actually guys that can't grasp the concept of no strings attached and became emotionally attached, even after one night.
Don't give up, this is probably the hardest as it can get very discouraging.
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