Apparently I'm a Ridiculous Person
I friended a member recently (referred to here on as "Asshat") and decided to defriend him after seeing some of his posts to certain stories I found offensive. Though I myself have engaged in the Electra/Oedipus complex via chat, I do not in the least condone stories revolving around sexual abuse of any kind. Asshat had left sick and disturbing comments regarding stories depicting sex with preadolescent c***dren. The stories were bad enough and I am not happy I even came across them, but to see a comment like "Oh, I'll bring my daughter over so she can play," or "Eight and *************** are great ages for this" (and I am paraphrasing)... to me this is just sick. Apparently it is legal, but some of Asshat's comments are only barely so. After seeing these comments, I defriended this sick fuck and sent him my reasoning in a VERY understated and respectful IM. I could have torn him to shreds with my words, such things were part of job for eight years, but I held back because it was I who mistakenly friended him. Here was Asshat's response... he sounded kinda angry lmao!:
"you have got to be the most ridiculous person i have ever met. i don't care about your feelings at all. i was also mistreated as a c***d, but i don't whine and cry about it. you have issues between what is real and what is fantasy. i my opinion, you have no business being on this website if you can't handle it's content. what a complete terd...piss off!"
And here is my "ridiculous" comment that elicited that response:
"After investigating your profile further I've decided against future contact. I won't bitch because it was my mistake to friend you before checking into your preferences more thoroughly but I will say this: the Electra/Oedipus complex is a very well-know and accepted psychosexual issue, but it is a MATURE issue. With regards to sexual attraction it is something that is acceptable amongst adults in the form of roleplay and is distinct from actual i****t. Some of the stories on this site, such as those of which you have made some rather disturbing comments, though legal, are something that offends me to core. As a victim of sexual abuse myself, I find it absolutely egregious that stories depicting such cruelty are written and read by otherwise good people. The reality is is that what is depicted in some of those stories destroys lives before they even had a chance to get started. You may not understand why or how, but early sexual experiences at the hands of trusted figures, especially family, is traumatizing beyond belief. Though I have been quite successful in terms of career in my life, honestly my interpersonal relationships have always been dysfunctional leading to a very lonely, depressing, and confusing personal life. I have lived my life by running from the effects of the sexual abuse my siblings and I endured as c***dren... the EFFECTS, not necessarily the events themselves, though some memories are more haunting than others. My point is that even if these stories are nothing more than fantasy (and God I hope they are) they are still depicting horribly harmful acts in a loving or nurturing light. This distorts the nature of these acts and, over time, warps the minds that read them. Making it worse, since this distortion occurs in the realm of sexual instinct, the damage done in terms of the reader's sexual desire is immense. Simply put, every sexual touch or experience a c***d receives from their caretakers might as well be a blow to their head, a lasting break to one of their bones, an infection of chronic disease, a scarring laceration, etc., etc. Every time. Every touch. All of it inflicts pain, even if delayed. I'm not trying to put you on the defensive; that is never conducive for communication. But I would hope you can give this some serious thought, and I would certainly hope this really is simply a fantasy for you."
Well you can be the judge. Apparently if you don't wish to be friends with p*******es and tell them so in terms that are far too kind, well that makes you a "ridiculous person." And by attempting to convey how traumatizing sexual abuse is by relating a small portion of my personal history, apparently that makes means I am "whining." Oh, and Asshat so gracefully points out, if you engage in roleplay then that is akin to promoting stories that depict sexual abuse.
Well holy fucking shit Asshat! You are by far the most outstanding lump of human shit I have ever had the displeasure to enter my awareness. I guess pretending to fuck little k**s DOESN'T mean you are a worthless waste of space, huh? I guess we just go around offering our u******ed daughters now and expect it to be normal? Ok. Good to fucking go. In your world I guess you're pretty goddamned attractive too and don't have to rely on c***dren for get off. And I'm sure you're not nearly as pathetically limp-dicked as you appear and really can look a real grown woman in the eye without cringing. Yeah, you are quite a man. Tough too. I'm sure your daughter will be so proud of her defected dad, the disgusting failure she calls a dad. Damn Asshat. I wish the world had more men like you. For now I guess we just gotten make do with fathers that give their c***dren secure and loving c***dhoods so their k**s grow up to be well-adjusted and successful in their relationships.
Asshat, you are scum. You are everything that is wrong in this world. You are the very example of weakness, of inferiority, of all that is worthless, and of cowardice. And I assure you tough guy, I am not a whiner any more than you are real man. Make no mistake. I may be female and on the petite side, but I could still drag a KA-BAR along your body and make a nice little incision where your balls never dropped if you ever challenged me like that in person. And I fucking guarantee you would whine and cry about it afterward. Sick fuck.
Update:
"Jerk on this you c***d m*****ing SHIT fucker!"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1LlazPgxKrA
"you have got to be the most ridiculous person i have ever met. i don't care about your feelings at all. i was also mistreated as a c***d, but i don't whine and cry about it. you have issues between what is real and what is fantasy. i my opinion, you have no business being on this website if you can't handle it's content. what a complete terd...piss off!"
And here is my "ridiculous" comment that elicited that response:
"After investigating your profile further I've decided against future contact. I won't bitch because it was my mistake to friend you before checking into your preferences more thoroughly but I will say this: the Electra/Oedipus complex is a very well-know and accepted psychosexual issue, but it is a MATURE issue. With regards to sexual attraction it is something that is acceptable amongst adults in the form of roleplay and is distinct from actual i****t. Some of the stories on this site, such as those of which you have made some rather disturbing comments, though legal, are something that offends me to core. As a victim of sexual abuse myself, I find it absolutely egregious that stories depicting such cruelty are written and read by otherwise good people. The reality is is that what is depicted in some of those stories destroys lives before they even had a chance to get started. You may not understand why or how, but early sexual experiences at the hands of trusted figures, especially family, is traumatizing beyond belief. Though I have been quite successful in terms of career in my life, honestly my interpersonal relationships have always been dysfunctional leading to a very lonely, depressing, and confusing personal life. I have lived my life by running from the effects of the sexual abuse my siblings and I endured as c***dren... the EFFECTS, not necessarily the events themselves, though some memories are more haunting than others. My point is that even if these stories are nothing more than fantasy (and God I hope they are) they are still depicting horribly harmful acts in a loving or nurturing light. This distorts the nature of these acts and, over time, warps the minds that read them. Making it worse, since this distortion occurs in the realm of sexual instinct, the damage done in terms of the reader's sexual desire is immense. Simply put, every sexual touch or experience a c***d receives from their caretakers might as well be a blow to their head, a lasting break to one of their bones, an infection of chronic disease, a scarring laceration, etc., etc. Every time. Every touch. All of it inflicts pain, even if delayed. I'm not trying to put you on the defensive; that is never conducive for communication. But I would hope you can give this some serious thought, and I would certainly hope this really is simply a fantasy for you."
Well you can be the judge. Apparently if you don't wish to be friends with p*******es and tell them so in terms that are far too kind, well that makes you a "ridiculous person." And by attempting to convey how traumatizing sexual abuse is by relating a small portion of my personal history, apparently that makes means I am "whining." Oh, and Asshat so gracefully points out, if you engage in roleplay then that is akin to promoting stories that depict sexual abuse.
Well holy fucking shit Asshat! You are by far the most outstanding lump of human shit I have ever had the displeasure to enter my awareness. I guess pretending to fuck little k**s DOESN'T mean you are a worthless waste of space, huh? I guess we just go around offering our u******ed daughters now and expect it to be normal? Ok. Good to fucking go. In your world I guess you're pretty goddamned attractive too and don't have to rely on c***dren for get off. And I'm sure you're not nearly as pathetically limp-dicked as you appear and really can look a real grown woman in the eye without cringing. Yeah, you are quite a man. Tough too. I'm sure your daughter will be so proud of her defected dad, the disgusting failure she calls a dad. Damn Asshat. I wish the world had more men like you. For now I guess we just gotten make do with fathers that give their c***dren secure and loving c***dhoods so their k**s grow up to be well-adjusted and successful in their relationships.
Asshat, you are scum. You are everything that is wrong in this world. You are the very example of weakness, of inferiority, of all that is worthless, and of cowardice. And I assure you tough guy, I am not a whiner any more than you are real man. Make no mistake. I may be female and on the petite side, but I could still drag a KA-BAR along your body and make a nice little incision where your balls never dropped if you ever challenged me like that in person. And I fucking guarantee you would whine and cry about it afterward. Sick fuck.
Update:
"Jerk on this you c***d m*****ing SHIT fucker!"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1LlazPgxKrA
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