Dirty talk - positive passions
Dirty talk can have a pretty steep learning curve. Maybe you feel ridiculous and get a fit of giggles. Maybe you can’t think of anything to say in the moment besides “Harder”. Maybe you think it makes lovemaking less tender. Whatever your hang-ups, we’re here to give you a few tips and tricks to telling him you want him to fuck you till you bleed and fill your ass with cum. Or whatever.
A lot of dirty talk guides distinguish themselves as guides for men or women. Really, while there are differences based on who’s inside of whom, either gender can take the lead in dirty talk. The examples we give will often be gender specific, but edit them to whatever your situation is!
There are different kinds of dirty talk. We’ll go over some of the possibilities for different dynamics and scenarios, with a few examples. You can take it from there!
Descriptive dirty talk is probably the easiest way to get started. Just say what’s happening! This works for both partners. So, if you’re getting fucked, just say “You’re fucking me so hard, I love how hard you’re fucking me.” If there’s a tongue in your ass, say, “Your tongue feels so good in my ass, I’m gonna cum so hard.” If you’re riding him cowgirl-style, say, “You like the way I ride you, don’t you?” And so forth. Just describe what’s happening and assert that everyone is enjoying themselves.
Compliments are also a pretty easy form of dirty talk, presuming you actually like the person you’re fucking. Complimenting the genitals is particularly nice, such as “I love your cock so much, it feels so good.” But remember that you’re fucking a whole person. “You’re so hot, you turn me on so much, I love feeling you cum in me.” “I’ve wanted this all day, you’re all I could think about.” “You look so sexy fucking me.” Talk about everything you like about them!
Instructional has the advantage of being a hot way to ask for something. It’s also handy if you have some problems with your partner’s performance and want to fix it in a way that doesn’t bruise their ego. Instead of saying “Hey, you eat me out like a virgin.” say “Suck my clit hard. I love when you move your tongue in circles.” Tell them to do what you want, and how much you’ll both enjoy it. Remember to use lots of action words and be authoritative. Avoid asking questions, which sounds less confident and sexy. So, instead of “Will you put your finger in my ass?” say “I want you to put your finger in my ass.” “Put your dick in me nice and slow.” Or “Fuck me through the wall, make me scream.” “Keep doing that, I’ll cum so hard.”
Verbal abuse has a pleasing hint of dominance and submission. Using words like slut, whore and cumdumpster (or asking your partner to use those words) can be really hot for some people. I advise against just busting these out without warning. Words hurt as much as fists, so just as you wouldn't punch your partner in the jaw without having a conversation beforehand, don't say cruel things without checking if it's safe for them. You can make the discussion foreplay, so “If you call me a whore it’ll make me so hot.” In the moment, try saying something like, “You filthy whore, you love this so much. You want this, you slut?”
Combining instructions with this dominant attitude leads to giving orders. So, “Tell me how hard you’re gonna fuck me.” Or “Say that you’re a dirty whore.” “Tell me how much you love my pussy.” “Touch yourself while you eat me out. Yeah, you can’t wait for it, can you? Beg me to fuck you.”
Begging is really hot for some people. This is the inverse to the dominance of the verbal abuse. So, the dominant one can order you to beg for it, and then you beg for it. Easy peasy! Something like, “Please put your dick in me, I wanna cum so hard.” “I need you inside me, I’m going crazy.” This ties in nicely with orgasm control. Your partner tells you you’re not allowed to cum until they give you permission, then you beg for it. This can work like, “You’d better not cum yet, you’ll be in so much trouble.” And you say, “Please, I’m so close, I need it so bad.”
Remember, dirty talk doesn’t just happen in bed. Send a text during the workday saying “Tonight you can do whatever you want to me.” Or leave a note that says, “I’m gonna tie you up tonight and have my way with you, you won’t even know what hit you.” Build anticipation!
The important thing to remember is to relax and have fun. If you have an established partner and you know each other well, build off what you know they like. So long as you both have a sense of humour about it, there’s not a lot you can say that’s wrong, and getting it right will make for some mindblowing sex!
A lot of dirty talk guides distinguish themselves as guides for men or women. Really, while there are differences based on who’s inside of whom, either gender can take the lead in dirty talk. The examples we give will often be gender specific, but edit them to whatever your situation is!
There are different kinds of dirty talk. We’ll go over some of the possibilities for different dynamics and scenarios, with a few examples. You can take it from there!
Descriptive dirty talk is probably the easiest way to get started. Just say what’s happening! This works for both partners. So, if you’re getting fucked, just say “You’re fucking me so hard, I love how hard you’re fucking me.” If there’s a tongue in your ass, say, “Your tongue feels so good in my ass, I’m gonna cum so hard.” If you’re riding him cowgirl-style, say, “You like the way I ride you, don’t you?” And so forth. Just describe what’s happening and assert that everyone is enjoying themselves.
Compliments are also a pretty easy form of dirty talk, presuming you actually like the person you’re fucking. Complimenting the genitals is particularly nice, such as “I love your cock so much, it feels so good.” But remember that you’re fucking a whole person. “You’re so hot, you turn me on so much, I love feeling you cum in me.” “I’ve wanted this all day, you’re all I could think about.” “You look so sexy fucking me.” Talk about everything you like about them!
Instructional has the advantage of being a hot way to ask for something. It’s also handy if you have some problems with your partner’s performance and want to fix it in a way that doesn’t bruise their ego. Instead of saying “Hey, you eat me out like a virgin.” say “Suck my clit hard. I love when you move your tongue in circles.” Tell them to do what you want, and how much you’ll both enjoy it. Remember to use lots of action words and be authoritative. Avoid asking questions, which sounds less confident and sexy. So, instead of “Will you put your finger in my ass?” say “I want you to put your finger in my ass.” “Put your dick in me nice and slow.” Or “Fuck me through the wall, make me scream.” “Keep doing that, I’ll cum so hard.”
Verbal abuse has a pleasing hint of dominance and submission. Using words like slut, whore and cumdumpster (or asking your partner to use those words) can be really hot for some people. I advise against just busting these out without warning. Words hurt as much as fists, so just as you wouldn't punch your partner in the jaw without having a conversation beforehand, don't say cruel things without checking if it's safe for them. You can make the discussion foreplay, so “If you call me a whore it’ll make me so hot.” In the moment, try saying something like, “You filthy whore, you love this so much. You want this, you slut?”
Combining instructions with this dominant attitude leads to giving orders. So, “Tell me how hard you’re gonna fuck me.” Or “Say that you’re a dirty whore.” “Tell me how much you love my pussy.” “Touch yourself while you eat me out. Yeah, you can’t wait for it, can you? Beg me to fuck you.”
Begging is really hot for some people. This is the inverse to the dominance of the verbal abuse. So, the dominant one can order you to beg for it, and then you beg for it. Easy peasy! Something like, “Please put your dick in me, I wanna cum so hard.” “I need you inside me, I’m going crazy.” This ties in nicely with orgasm control. Your partner tells you you’re not allowed to cum until they give you permission, then you beg for it. This can work like, “You’d better not cum yet, you’ll be in so much trouble.” And you say, “Please, I’m so close, I need it so bad.”
Remember, dirty talk doesn’t just happen in bed. Send a text during the workday saying “Tonight you can do whatever you want to me.” Or leave a note that says, “I’m gonna tie you up tonight and have my way with you, you won’t even know what hit you.” Build anticipation!
The important thing to remember is to relax and have fun. If you have an established partner and you know each other well, build off what you know they like. So long as you both have a sense of humour about it, there’s not a lot you can say that’s wrong, and getting it right will make for some mindblowing sex!
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