Reality Check

I have a lot of things going on....but writing for the majority of the month of November for a writing project took a majority of my time. i am learning to write a tasteful sexy erotic scene without degrading the character or the actual story line. It isn't a story worth reading if the story line is degraded to the point it is just a mindless sex act....which is a lot of the way the real world works...it is nice to be in a relationship...even if it is an open one with an understanding person that accepts us for who we really are.....I remember a girl telling me once that she got turned on watching me kiss her roommate.....that it made her jealous to watch me make her roommate happy and take her out to dinner, and walk her to the car, holding the door for her....I think she was pushing the cat woman theme. I tried to set her up with a friend of mine, but she was a little too demanding and not accepting of him..and it was more a casual one night dinner. I don't know why, but this gave me an idea of a roommate that didn't date and worked in a professional career, but got jealous of a happy ongoing long term relationship with her roommate....and how she tried to seduce her roommate's boyfriend...I know sometimes girls can be a little catty...and territorial...but I thought...wouldn't it be interesting if the girls planned a night for them both to get what they wanted. The girlfriend was tired of being taken for granted...so she wanted her roommate to seduce her boyfriend...and she wanted to hear or see evidence of it while they were in the act....but I think something like this would backfire....and the girls would have a falling out.....one could watch the other performing a sexual act on the boyfriend...and then switch places....but i don't think both could be actively involved in the act at one time....it would be a territorial thing....or would it? What do people think about a scenario like this...I think they call it cuckqueening....is it a turnon or just plain disgusting????

well, that is about all I have going on right now...I am still working on the dialogue as well...how does a classy self respecting girl show her slutty side to her boyfriend of a few months? Does she just ask for him to take her to the bedroom...does she carefully stage a few events to lead to a seduction.....or does she just provide pleasure anytime he wants it...and she doesn't mind????