Getting used to this site

and working out the silly rules that are used by some members.

Seems that most media are restricted either to friends or, even after a friend invite is accepted, with passwords.

It seems too that people use this to accept your invite and then quickly get in to check out your material and then unfriend you if they don't like what they see - either in terms of amount of material or the nature of the material.

Anyway, I'm a newbie. Learning as I go. I'll add more material and have a think about whether it's really necessary to put protection on. Those that add and then remove me - wanbel stap. I'm understanding the game now so nogat kros.