55 DAYS (observation)
55 DAYS
Today is my 55th day on Xhamster. Boy time went fast. Seems like yesterday, I was just getting those first few welcome messages from people who I guess were moderators. I can still remember trying to upload pics for the first time and thinking to myself, "Should I be putting naked pics of myself on here? What if someone I know sees them cause they're perverts like me and love porn? How am I going to be able to show my privates but still keep my privacy?" Ahhhh those were the days. Of course, me being horny overrided all my concerns, but what you gonna do, lol. Well 55 days later I'm still here, more adept with the website and how it rolls. Still a few things I have to learn but that will come in due time right
I just have some personal observations that I wanted to share about Xhamster since I've been here these 55 days. (In no particular order of importance, I might add)
1) There's just way to many more guys then girls on here.
I know this isn't a new phenomenon or nothing. Sites like this, along with dating sites always have a crazy disproportionate ratio of men to women, I hate that cause as a guy, you pretty much are invisible and don't really have any value no matter how much of a gentlemen or how "cool" you think you are. Add the fact that about a third of the women are lesbian, and you realize you're pretty much on your own unless you have a body like a Greek god and have a 12 inch cock. Congratulations to all those guys.
2) Some guys on here aren't telling the truth in their profiles.
I've had some guys send me messages asking for me to do sex shit with them, like fuck them in their ass , or let them suck my dick. When I look at their profiles though, it says they're seeking WOMEN!! Well how come you making passes at me!? Times must be tough for guys, they're just trying to get a nut off on anything even if it means batting for the other team sometimes. daaaaaaammmm, lol.
3) 90% of the girls from New York City (my area) are cam models!
You'd figure that NYC would have a good number of members on xhamster. This city is huuuge and us New Yorkers love sex! but every time I search, I just come up with 20 year old girls pushing their stupid cam sites, and I think they aren't even based in NYC. waaaaaaaccckkkk!!! I'm not knocking anyone's hustle but I'm just wondering where are the real NY women to maybe converse with, share some insight and maybe, should I dare say, meet up with!!, even if for just drinks or coffee, or Ping Pong!! ( who want's to play me, you can't beat me lol). If you ladies are out there, introduce yourself!! What are you waiting for.:)
4) So many different nationalities
I like the fact that xhamster has many members from all over the world. If you get to chat with some of the members, you get a chance to share aspects of each others culture and learn new things from each other. That's always a good thing in my little book of good things
5) The Porn is Good
Even before I joined, I always thought xhamster had good porn videos in many genres. Nothing has changed in 55 days, :)
6) Like, 90% of the guys on here have COCK AVATARS
From the moment I made my profile, I swore I would never put a picture of my dick as an avatar. I understand some guys don't want to show their faces on the site and that's understandable but cock pick avatars are just too too generic and like really 1980's, if xhamster was around in the 1980's.
7) 5 days to upload 2 minutes of video
Really. 5 days? and don't let the video be unable to convert, it'll be 2 weeks before you get your video up. And why doesn't xhamster tell you exactly why your video gets deleted. I even emailed them and asked them why a video of me playing piano was deleted!! They haven't got back to me yet. Maybe I should of had my cock on the piano keys while I was playing. The video probably would have gotten through customs. lol (UPDATE: A day after posting this , they told me my video was deleted because it wasn't porn. Fair enough, next time, I'm going to post a video of my cock and balls playing piano. Lol, a duet of sorts.)
8) The Xhamster community is active
Out of all the porn sites I've been a member of (only 3), xhamster's community is the most active. Many people are in the community and they are online often. Plus xhamster tries to make the community as legit as it can with the whole verified membership thing. Way more then other sites do to ensure there are actually some real members running around the community.
9) A lot of guys on xhamster are assholes to women...according to women
I added "according to women" to number 9 because I don't know if most guys are assholes for a fact since I don't experience the ladies point of view but I see a lot of women have addendums to their profile pages stating how disrespectful guys are being towards them. They say guys are calling them all types of real classy names like slut and hoar, in the first message they send! wow!! Women are claiming they get harassed verbally by men on here on the regular. Hey dudes!!! What the fuck is wrong with you guys? Slow down , have some decency. Stop thinking with your dicks all the fucking time and be gentlemen. It's already tough getting to know women on here but you guys make it worst and you fuck up the xhamster community making the men to women ratio a little bit larger cause women decide to leave or "retire". Have some respect. That's what a true gentleman has.
10) For some reason, I can't leave this site
After 55 days, I'm still addicted to this site. When I'm offline, I kind of can't wait to come back on. I've been here more then I've been on Facebook which I find boring right now. I guess it's the freedom to show pretty much anything; The license to write about whatever you want; The ability to say things you probably wouldn't say in a "normal" public forum. These factors are what I think makes this site intriguing. Yea the intrigue might wear off and boredom might set in eventually. But right now, I'm just trying to enjoy the ride and learn how to make the site work for me. I'm trying to find ways to keep it fun for myself. Toast to the next 55 days!
To the few ladies who I have become good friends with and who have taken the time to get to know me through our chats, some naughty and some nic, lol.
Lovely-Curves, cutecpl77, Ivaanna88, foxyroxy, elliegirl, soho69me Love you !!! xoxo
To the few dudes I've met on here and had something in common with
JUJU777, and moshe40, Peace, Hope you guys are having fun on here .
Till next time everyone, be safe.
THE KNIGHT
Today is my 55th day on Xhamster. Boy time went fast. Seems like yesterday, I was just getting those first few welcome messages from people who I guess were moderators. I can still remember trying to upload pics for the first time and thinking to myself, "Should I be putting naked pics of myself on here? What if someone I know sees them cause they're perverts like me and love porn? How am I going to be able to show my privates but still keep my privacy?" Ahhhh those were the days. Of course, me being horny overrided all my concerns, but what you gonna do, lol. Well 55 days later I'm still here, more adept with the website and how it rolls. Still a few things I have to learn but that will come in due time right
I just have some personal observations that I wanted to share about Xhamster since I've been here these 55 days. (In no particular order of importance, I might add)
1) There's just way to many more guys then girls on here.
I know this isn't a new phenomenon or nothing. Sites like this, along with dating sites always have a crazy disproportionate ratio of men to women, I hate that cause as a guy, you pretty much are invisible and don't really have any value no matter how much of a gentlemen or how "cool" you think you are. Add the fact that about a third of the women are lesbian, and you realize you're pretty much on your own unless you have a body like a Greek god and have a 12 inch cock. Congratulations to all those guys.
2) Some guys on here aren't telling the truth in their profiles.
I've had some guys send me messages asking for me to do sex shit with them, like fuck them in their ass , or let them suck my dick. When I look at their profiles though, it says they're seeking WOMEN!! Well how come you making passes at me!? Times must be tough for guys, they're just trying to get a nut off on anything even if it means batting for the other team sometimes. daaaaaaammmm, lol.
3) 90% of the girls from New York City (my area) are cam models!
You'd figure that NYC would have a good number of members on xhamster. This city is huuuge and us New Yorkers love sex! but every time I search, I just come up with 20 year old girls pushing their stupid cam sites, and I think they aren't even based in NYC. waaaaaaaccckkkk!!! I'm not knocking anyone's hustle but I'm just wondering where are the real NY women to maybe converse with, share some insight and maybe, should I dare say, meet up with!!, even if for just drinks or coffee, or Ping Pong!! ( who want's to play me, you can't beat me lol). If you ladies are out there, introduce yourself!! What are you waiting for.:)
4) So many different nationalities
I like the fact that xhamster has many members from all over the world. If you get to chat with some of the members, you get a chance to share aspects of each others culture and learn new things from each other. That's always a good thing in my little book of good things
5) The Porn is Good
Even before I joined, I always thought xhamster had good porn videos in many genres. Nothing has changed in 55 days, :)
6) Like, 90% of the guys on here have COCK AVATARS
From the moment I made my profile, I swore I would never put a picture of my dick as an avatar. I understand some guys don't want to show their faces on the site and that's understandable but cock pick avatars are just too too generic and like really 1980's, if xhamster was around in the 1980's.
7) 5 days to upload 2 minutes of video
Really. 5 days? and don't let the video be unable to convert, it'll be 2 weeks before you get your video up. And why doesn't xhamster tell you exactly why your video gets deleted. I even emailed them and asked them why a video of me playing piano was deleted!! They haven't got back to me yet. Maybe I should of had my cock on the piano keys while I was playing. The video probably would have gotten through customs. lol (UPDATE: A day after posting this , they told me my video was deleted because it wasn't porn. Fair enough, next time, I'm going to post a video of my cock and balls playing piano. Lol, a duet of sorts.)
8) The Xhamster community is active
Out of all the porn sites I've been a member of (only 3), xhamster's community is the most active. Many people are in the community and they are online often. Plus xhamster tries to make the community as legit as it can with the whole verified membership thing. Way more then other sites do to ensure there are actually some real members running around the community.
9) A lot of guys on xhamster are assholes to women...according to women
I added "according to women" to number 9 because I don't know if most guys are assholes for a fact since I don't experience the ladies point of view but I see a lot of women have addendums to their profile pages stating how disrespectful guys are being towards them. They say guys are calling them all types of real classy names like slut and hoar, in the first message they send! wow!! Women are claiming they get harassed verbally by men on here on the regular. Hey dudes!!! What the fuck is wrong with you guys? Slow down , have some decency. Stop thinking with your dicks all the fucking time and be gentlemen. It's already tough getting to know women on here but you guys make it worst and you fuck up the xhamster community making the men to women ratio a little bit larger cause women decide to leave or "retire". Have some respect. That's what a true gentleman has.
10) For some reason, I can't leave this site
After 55 days, I'm still addicted to this site. When I'm offline, I kind of can't wait to come back on. I've been here more then I've been on Facebook which I find boring right now. I guess it's the freedom to show pretty much anything; The license to write about whatever you want; The ability to say things you probably wouldn't say in a "normal" public forum. These factors are what I think makes this site intriguing. Yea the intrigue might wear off and boredom might set in eventually. But right now, I'm just trying to enjoy the ride and learn how to make the site work for me. I'm trying to find ways to keep it fun for myself. Toast to the next 55 days!
To the few ladies who I have become good friends with and who have taken the time to get to know me through our chats, some naughty and some nic, lol.
Lovely-Curves, cutecpl77, Ivaanna88, foxyroxy, elliegirl, soho69me Love you !!! xoxo
To the few dudes I've met on here and had something in common with
JUJU777, and moshe40, Peace, Hope you guys are having fun on here .
Till next time everyone, be safe.
THE KNIGHT
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