For all my REAL mature women lovers...

I've never been with a woman that was significantly older than me (I've been with some that were slightly older than me), so I'm curious to know how you pulled it off. Did you come on to her, or did she come on to you? Was it a one night deal or a regular thing? Also, when did you know that you were sexually attracted to older women. I've always thought about being with a woman in her 40s or 50s, with a head and pussy covered with a unique mix of gray and dark colored hair, but it never happened for me. To be honest, I just didn't know how to approach the ones I was attracted to, like my mother's neighbor. Now that I'm happily married with a c***d, I'm not about to jeopardize losing my family just to fulfill a fantasy. So I just want to know from the ones that either have or currently are fulfilling their fantasies, HOW DID IT HAPPEN?