Time to talk "issue's

Let's face it everyone has them. If you swear you don't your issue is ego lol.Nobody starts out in life with them, they grow from real life situations sometimes from c***dhood, general life or specific experiences. In kink and bdsm a REAL and caring partner MUST take these into account when choosing a playmate.Try to find someone whose issues will not poke at your own. Example : abandonment issues not going to go well with commitment issues. That's a whole push me pull u situation not pretty. Not everyone knows all their own issues or they can change over time or not even sure what to call them. Quirks, ,things that u know upset you but not sure why. If a playmate is unwilling to wade gently through these they do not deserve to touch your body let alone your mind and soul.Even in chatting or meeting new kinksters it is not cool to purposefully poke at a persons issues. If you find your r unable to handle them or Don't think you would be compatible say so,save the both of you time. Insulting or laughing at someone because you do not understand their personal journey is cruel and unacceptable! you have not walked in their shoes,or taken the road beside the. Stop judging another's footsteps and take deeper look at your own because the more you know yourself,your own needs the closer you get to having them fullfilled.