Cuckold lifestyle

I am quite a highly sexed girl, I just love having sex and role play, dressing up to turn my husband on, but for the last year or so things in the bedroom were dropping off. We had been having a few problems, my husband went soft in me or he would cum too soon, we used to have sex for hours before he came but I would feel him squirt after just a few minutes or worse he would go soft, and I would be left to use a toy to finish me. In fact, I began to find the toy better!
I had known Ian a while and fancied him and I suggested that we try cuckold, I didn’t want to split up or anything and we are the best of friends, so John said I could go with Ian. Ian is 23, 10 years younger than me, and I didn’t think he would be interested in a skinny small breasted 33 year old mum of 2. But I asked Ian out and we went on a few dates, first date we kissed and he touched me it was thrilling, the second date I have him a bj in the car, then I invited back on the next date, John was a bit annoyed, and Ian was a bit unsure but we kissed infront of my husband then went upstairs, it lasted an hour and 40 and I was very loud! Making sure hubby could hear.
I like to wear my husband’s favourite outfits for Ian, driving my husband wild while Ian takes photos of me, and videos me and even ties me up! He makes me work so hard for my orgasm!
That was 3 months ago, I haven’t had sex with my husband all that time, but Ian has been in my pussy so much I feel like his private sperm bank. Some weekends when the k**s are away Ian sleeps over and hubby is on the sofa, and we spend the night together as proper lovers. I never use condoms with Ian so sometimes I let my husband lick me. He has even been in the room tied and gagged watching us have sex or make love passionately.
My husband keeps begging me for sex but I love Ians cock, he never goes soft!