Recent personal insight

First off, I'm still working on a few story ideas. Just haven't finished any of them!

Ok, regarding my "personal insight". As I go about watching the various videos I come across on xhamster and elsewhere, one thing that I am definitely not interested in is what I term "unnecessary abuse".

Now, before I get anyone slamming the obvious "abuse is never necessary", let me explain what I mean:

I understand that we all have our kinks, desires, lusts, turn-ons, or whatever we want to call them. A good friend of mine once said, "For anything that anyone wants to do, there is always someone willing to have it done."

Among those things there are people who get turned on and horny by being "mistreated", ie: slapped, whipped, bruised, and even bloodied. Believe it or not, I understand. I'm not into it, but I understand it.

However, there is a place for that. And I think it should be left in it's place.

What really turns me OFF is when I'm watching a video that has potential to be really hot and some asshat decides to up and slap the woman in the video in the face. Especially when she's in the middle of doing something hot, like deep-throating a cock or licking another woman. And also especially when it's obvious that it wasn't part of the original intent of the video.

I just don't understand what gets into a guy in those situations. I mean, here is a hot, sexy woman, in the process of making your cock hard and feel good by sucking on you, and you up and slap her?

I wish I could say that in real life, that would result in her flipping out and either kicking your ass or at least leaving, but sadly I've heard stories of it happening in real life and the woman just sticking it out. Yeah, fuck that shit.

If you're a woman going down on a guy, or down on another woman, and a dude (or even another woman) smacks you unexpectedly, fucking lay down the law on his ass. If you're into getting smacked, that's different, but I think the person should know you well enough to have been informed of this before the experience.

Again, like I said, I understand that there are times when it's desired by the woman, or she's into it, and that's all fine.

But, here's another point of view on it: filming. An example is a recent "gangbang" video I tried to watch, that sent my raging hard on into a flacid sun-exposed gummy worm).

First, it wasn't an actual gangbang, because all it involved was oral, but maybe that qualifies. But, the girl seemed to be really into it, was very sexually appealing in appearance, and it was amateur style, so I was watching.

Here she is with about 4 cocks around her, each hand on a different cock, one in her mouth, and another behind her, as well as other naked guys in the background. She's doing a great job on the cock from what I can see, and he's obviously not limp.

Suddenly, the dude smacks her right in the face, while she's sucking him off. You can see the surprise look on her face, but she keeps going. And so does he. About five times she gets smacked while his cock is in her mouth.

Now, in the whole video not one of the other guys does anything like what he does. Every other guy simply enjoys getting sucked off, but this dude is an asshat.

Even when she moves on to another cock, as is often the case in this type of video, he smacks her. He's not so impudent to do it when she has some other guy's cock in her mouth, but the second she lets it out and moves to another, he quickly gets in a hard smack or two.

Dude, ever try that while I'm there, and I'll kick your ass, naked or not...

Seriously people, if you're going to film sexual acts and post them, at least try and think about what you're trying to accomplish with your camera. And if someone is fucking it up, kick them out of the situation.

For those who don't agree with me: You don't have to. This is MY blog.