Xhamster Friend Requests

I had to keep denying a user who was sending me friend requests over and over.
The user must have sent me 6 "friend" requests.
After going through this with the user, I decided to post regarding "friends".

The request was from a user in another country with no original content (no content at all actually) who spoke another language.
No offence hun, but why would you want to add me as a "friend"? You can't communicate with me very well and you have nothing original to share.

Not that my personal content is that great, i enjoy teasing more than just uploading nudes but at least I've added some and shared myself with the xhamster community.

I don't add friends just for the sake of adding "friends".

I don't believe that adding "friends" is a sport and there is no prize for adding the most! I've been on this site for just about 2 years and could easily have thousands of "friends". I dont pay too much attention to the numbers on my friends list but have rejected more than i have accepted or added.

I tend to stick to adding or accepting fellow verified accounts. Even if we dont interact im more comfortable having people who have took the plunge and committed to having a true profile on here.

Some profiles have 5000 friends and I don't see how they can actually interact with even 10% of them on a regular basis. Most of these with 5000 "friends" aren't really "friends" they are subscribers who want to see the awesome content.

Here's a little bit of insight on the types of profiles I'll send friend requests to or accept friend requests from:


1) Great Content - If you have something great to share, then i want to stay in touch so i can watch anything that is restricted to friends only and receive all your updates on the "My News" feed. if all you have is a few favorites and nothing original uploaded, do yourself a favor and at least do a blog or story post. give your "friends" a reason to go to your page.
2) Similar interests - If we have compatible kinks, fetishes, fantasies, etc I'll want to have you as a friend because we have something to actually communicate about. this is why i have a page of "About Me" on my profile. It lets everyone know about me and my turn ons. If you like what you read, add me. if not, no worries and move on.
3) Cool people - Lastly and very important! regardless of gender, sexual preference, race, language, location, etc if you are a cool person then i'll want to be friends with you. If you are a user that dosent upload or contribute to the site but then demands things from me and gets angry when you dont get what you want, then i'm not interested.

Okay, i'm done with my rant now back to the porn!