Looking for a friend

I would like to find a friend that has similar Bi or a crossdresser interests like myself tp play around with. Hopefully someone local around the same age mid thirties and has around the experience level as me. I have never done anything with someone of the sex or a transsexual. Someone that is single, disease and d**g free. I am very discrete and need to be. Not looking to upset my life just looking to see what these feelings are about right now. I want someone to play and cuddle with and JO. Then move on to oral and possibly more. I am kind of versatile and would like to try both top and bottom. I would be willing to try almost anything with some I could trust. Not into piss, s**t, blood or pain. I have never been a fan of one night stands. I would rather have a more on going thing if possible with the same person really get to know and explore each other and our sexuality. I want to start a little slow and ease into this. I would prefer someone who is a bit skinnier than me and smoother. Message me a little about yourself if you local are looking for something similar.