A love letter to a pussy
This exercise is all about you.
If you live with roommates, a spouse, k**s, or alone, communicate to others around you to allow this full hour to yourself. Turn off your phone. Put on your favorite music. The only supply you need is a hand held mirror, pen, little bit of lube and paper or computer.
Build a nest comfortably on your bed or on the floor leaning against the wall. Prop the mirror in front of you at an angle where you can see your pussy fully. Observe the outside of your pussy. Notice the size, color and texture of the outer labia. Touch her with your fingers. Feel the sensation of her in your fingertips. You can even describe your pussy out loud as though you are her lover telling her how she looks. Notice any marks, the feel and color of your hair, feel the texture on your fingertips. Now open the outer lips to observe the inside. How does the inner lips look? Are they small or spill over the outer lips? Feel the texture of the inner lips. Move them around and see how she dances with your fingers. Observe the color of your pussy. Notice that it changes color with your attention on it, perhaps from a soft pink to a deeper wine, or light grey to smokey grey. Look at the entrance, the introitus, and how it opens and closes with your attention.
Pull the hood back to see your clit. There is a spot on the upper left hand quadrant where 8000 nerve endings collaessed. It’s the most sensitive spot on a women’s clitoris and is there purely for pleasure. Feel free to explore your clit. Dip your index finger with a little bit of lube and stroke your clit. Explore the upper left hand quadrant and notice the sensation. Perhaps it’s pleasurable, or maybe a little numb, or maybe painful. Use tiny up, down strokes. Also explore other parts of the clit and notice the sensation on your clit and in your body. It’s perfectly normal to feel pleasure, or shame or uncomfortable. Sometimes,ladies, you do not give ourselves enough time with our pussy. You don’t get to know her and how she feels and what she likes. Take this time to really get to know her. Be curious about her the way you would a new lover.
If you would like to name your pussy, think of a name that would describe who she is and her power. If you don’t want to name her, that’s perfectly fine too.
After observing your pussy, take about 15 minutes to write a letter to her. Allow the words to flow and say whatever you want to say. Perhaps describe to her what you saw and how that effected you. Talk about your relationship to her. Tell her what you haven’t said before. Tell her what you want to do for it and how you want to connect to her. Maybe the both of you have gone through some trauma together and seeing her reminded you of that again. Be gentle with her and let her know you are listening to her.
After you have written the letter, put it in a sealed envelope with her name on it and put it in a place where you can come back to it and read it again at a later date. I’d also like to invite you to PM me a copy of your letter so it can become part of a larger movement of women connecting with their pussy or if you're a bit braver post your letter here in the comments.
If you live with roommates, a spouse, k**s, or alone, communicate to others around you to allow this full hour to yourself. Turn off your phone. Put on your favorite music. The only supply you need is a hand held mirror, pen, little bit of lube and paper or computer.
Build a nest comfortably on your bed or on the floor leaning against the wall. Prop the mirror in front of you at an angle where you can see your pussy fully. Observe the outside of your pussy. Notice the size, color and texture of the outer labia. Touch her with your fingers. Feel the sensation of her in your fingertips. You can even describe your pussy out loud as though you are her lover telling her how she looks. Notice any marks, the feel and color of your hair, feel the texture on your fingertips. Now open the outer lips to observe the inside. How does the inner lips look? Are they small or spill over the outer lips? Feel the texture of the inner lips. Move them around and see how she dances with your fingers. Observe the color of your pussy. Notice that it changes color with your attention on it, perhaps from a soft pink to a deeper wine, or light grey to smokey grey. Look at the entrance, the introitus, and how it opens and closes with your attention.
Pull the hood back to see your clit. There is a spot on the upper left hand quadrant where 8000 nerve endings collaessed. It’s the most sensitive spot on a women’s clitoris and is there purely for pleasure. Feel free to explore your clit. Dip your index finger with a little bit of lube and stroke your clit. Explore the upper left hand quadrant and notice the sensation. Perhaps it’s pleasurable, or maybe a little numb, or maybe painful. Use tiny up, down strokes. Also explore other parts of the clit and notice the sensation on your clit and in your body. It’s perfectly normal to feel pleasure, or shame or uncomfortable. Sometimes,ladies, you do not give ourselves enough time with our pussy. You don’t get to know her and how she feels and what she likes. Take this time to really get to know her. Be curious about her the way you would a new lover.
If you would like to name your pussy, think of a name that would describe who she is and her power. If you don’t want to name her, that’s perfectly fine too.
After observing your pussy, take about 15 minutes to write a letter to her. Allow the words to flow and say whatever you want to say. Perhaps describe to her what you saw and how that effected you. Talk about your relationship to her. Tell her what you haven’t said before. Tell her what you want to do for it and how you want to connect to her. Maybe the both of you have gone through some trauma together and seeing her reminded you of that again. Be gentle with her and let her know you are listening to her.
After you have written the letter, put it in a sealed envelope with her name on it and put it in a place where you can come back to it and read it again at a later date. I’d also like to invite you to PM me a copy of your letter so it can become part of a larger movement of women connecting with their pussy or if you're a bit braver post your letter here in the comments.
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