Am I a female pervert?

This contains sexually explicit descriptions and such, so if you're easily offended please don't read on.

Ok, maybe not a pervert,
I have been a *******te since prepubescence but a lot of the time I feel like I'm out of line with my sexuality. I know society tries to make women feel bad about being sexual, but sometimes I just feel like I have to refrain from doing things against my own will just so I won't be perceived as either a pervert or a slut.

How do I stop from being so hungry for sexuality? I masturbate often, I also have sex on a normal basis, but I always get such a high from playing that seduction game. I think most of the time I'm working on making a man desire me or I myself am desiring somebody (whether it be a woman or a man). I also look at porn which most of my female friends frown upon. I have all of these insane fantasies and then when I talk to my girlfriends they only talk about how they like to "make traditional love" with their boyfriends or whatever. I feel like I'm the only woman into actually having sex for having sex.

Is this wrong? Am I the only woman like this?