Empty promises

So my wife and i recently relocated our family and everyone who has ever mover b4 knows...it takes $$$$.
And one week my check was short and we were desprate...we needed diapers wipes...the whole 9yards....i went into hustle mode and of course made some extra $$$...
My wife txt me "if u can bring home diapers wipes and milk, along with somethin to eat and a pack of smokes she give me a BJ....