This needs to be said - part 1

Ive been on this site for over three years. Been looking to write a blog for a while, kept putting it off, but feel its time to speak up. As some of you may have seen, my profile is private and guys do not have the option to send me an invite. During my time here I have spoken to some lovely people... but then there are those of you who feel the need to act like an overgrown manc***d.

So youre probably thinking, 'why be bothered by these people? Its just a handful of guys here...'. Well its not so much that these people get to me, they dont. It just makes me wonder how a guy can go from being polite and charming one minute, to being a whiny, entitled, disrespectful little man the next. Guys who seem to think that me politefully saying 'no thankyou' is somehow an attack on their manhood, that its OK to then get abusive... well its not.

And in any case, if youre going to come at me with the wrong attitude, then all you are doing is justifying my reasons for saying no in the first place. It seems whenever I consider re-opening my profile to men again, some prick comes along and reminds me why I shouldnt. Again, you may ask 'why not just turn messages off?' Well as I said earlier, ive spoken to some lovely people on this site, and Im not going to let the small minority of dickheads put an end to that.

Bottom line - yes, this is an adult site. Yes, we see things that are of an adult nature... so why is it some of you choose NOT to speak to others in an adult way?

Just a thought.