Second Time at a Swingers' Home Party

I have been in the lifestyle for over a decade now. My ex never totally took to it by being in the same room having sex with others playing, but we got close to that...very close as you'll see from our videos--she was cool trying new things, (toys, Neru massages, sex at In...), she met with many other couples and we had all round good, no pressure, non-sexual, get out on the town and enjoy the company of other people fun. Definitely good and memorable times.

Mind you, being in the lifestyle requires patience, good manners, there's a definite etiquette: https://jeninflorida.wordpress.com/2012/04/13/a-guide-to-swinger-etiquette/
and just getting into a chemistry to see if all click before playing begins.

Never push, etc. Here's my/our blog on swinging based on our and my experience: https://xhamster.com/posts/634900

We both first met an instructive couple our age, C&M...had beers, met at local bar with others in the lifestyle, met with others we met there. Along the way, we met J&J...experienced, laid back, let's have fun without hang-ups, Chinese Lights walk, libertines and hedonists and drinkers and 420 lovers, very kind and down-to-earth...just like us. Got close to everyone playing but ex backed out at a swingers' Christmas party. Then life got in the way. Operation. Work. Mutual betrayals, but understanding to a point. Separated. It's ok.

We all grow, and sometimes it's away from others
yet happily to others. and that's all right, and that's ok.

So...apologies for all of this preamble before relating to you what happened this evening at J&J's fabulously fun swinger's Christmas party I went to ...