Insane Love
INSANE LOVE is not what could be defined as DEEP LOVE like TRUE LOVE. Although in reality it is what most people feel when they fall in love. Suddenly the other becomes the absolute center of own life and own happiness depends on it. Own future, the existence, own whole life. A need so irrational, excessive, obsessive that it makes "insane" this kind of love so common.
TRUE LOVE is not destructive. TRUE LOVE excludes possessiveness, jealousy, neurotic dependency. TRUE LOVE should consist in letting the other exist, even outside of ourself, in leaving another person oxygenate. In wanting what is good for the other and not necessarily for oneself, it consists in helping the loved one to grow, to evolve, above all by avoiding any kind of emotional blackmail, of conscious or un-conscious pressure to try to be the exclusive center of that universe only because we need to heppen
I would like to clarify that I am not able to implement this thesis :P
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PX7LLua5NCM
TRUE LOVE is not destructive. TRUE LOVE excludes possessiveness, jealousy, neurotic dependency. TRUE LOVE should consist in letting the other exist, even outside of ourself, in leaving another person oxygenate. In wanting what is good for the other and not necessarily for oneself, it consists in helping the loved one to grow, to evolve, above all by avoiding any kind of emotional blackmail, of conscious or un-conscious pressure to try to be the exclusive center of that universe only because we need to heppen
I would like to clarify that I am not able to implement this thesis :P
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PX7LLua5NCM
8年前
