CL getting shut down

I'm not one to venture out to bars or clubs to meet guys. I'm just not that confident in myself. I'm not worried about someone outing me, I'm just a generally shy person. So I turned to the internet to meet people that I may want to invite over. The only site I had success (pay site or otherwise) is CL. With that shut down now I don't know what I'll be able to do. What internet sites does everyone else use?

Michelle