Bigger anal gaps

many girls who like anal sex but find it painful and they are usually worried about their size of anal hole . having experience as anal sex lover i have tried things which worked and some didnt work . so i tried few things and methods to make the anal hole bigger than it was before. so i am going to tell few tips.
1> try to insert your fingers in the ass hole , do not try to use big toys in the beginning only, it will hurt if you do so
2> try to increase the no of fingers to be inserted in ass hole gradually and do not rush about it
3> after this, use dildos which are smaller in size or try to get butt plugs or beads , you can also use here lubricants if you want. KY jelly is good lubricant
4> do this upto few days regularly.so it becomes easy
5> now its time to use moderate sized dildos, try those which has greater thickness., do not jump or bigger size and make sure smaller toys are now easy to insert.
6> you can increase the thickness day by day and that too with use of lubricant.
7> use thick beads also they are more effective .when it comes to widening gaps
8> now use smaller objects if you like insertions
9> you can use double headed dildos, thick bottom plugs , you can hold them for some time , do not use them for longer periods.
10> now go for bigger toys if medium sized toys fits in.
practice will with toys. by doing much the anal sex would be less painful and more pleasurebale.