BDSM TEST (https://bdsmtest.org/) - 17 August 2018
I did the BDSM test again (2nd time) on 17 August 2018 - the following is the full test (questions and my answers). The results of the test can be found in my "About Me" on my profile
The test requires answers to be answered (unless otherwise specified) on a scale of 1-7 (1 = totally DISAGREE with statement, 4 = neutral, 7 = totally AGREE with statement]
★ PRELIM QUESTIONS:
☆☆ Gender [male OR female OR other] - male
☆☆ Age [under 20 OR 20-22 OR 23-25 OR 26-30 OR 31-35 OR 36-40 OR 41-45 OR 46-50 OR 51-55 OR 56-60 OR 61-65 OR 66-70 OR 71-75 OR over 75] - 36-40
☆☆ Orientation [Strictly heterosexual OR Heteroflexible/Bi-curious OR Bisexual/Pansexual OR Homoflexible OR Strictly lesbian/Gay OR Other/Prefer not to disclose] - Bisexual/Pansexual
★ THE ACTUAL TEST:
☆01☆ I like to be dominated, especially in the bedroom ● 7
☆02☆ I like receiving pain during sex/BDSM and seeing the results of it (marks/bruises, makeup running by tears, etc.) afterwards ● 5
☆03☆ If I could make some money from selling porn clips of myself, I definitely would ● 7
☆04☆ I don't have any sort of specific fetish or non-standard sexual turn-on ● 1
☆05☆ If I could not fulfil all of my partner's sexual desires, I would encourage them to see other people to fill the gaps ● 7
☆06☆ I want my partner to serve me and address me as a superior ● 1
☆07☆ I could be sexually submissive now, and be sexually dominant another time (either to the same, or to another partner) ● 1
☆08☆ I am willing to try anything once, even if I don't think I will like it ● 7
☆09☆ I enjoy feeling like a prey hunted by a predator ● 6
☆10☆ I would like to have sex with multiple people at the same time ● 7
☆11☆ The idea of being tortured sexually, is appealing ● 6
☆12☆ I will naturally take on a nurturing and guiding, almost parental role in a relationship ● 1
☆13☆ I feel the need to serve my partner and treat them with the highest respect, adressing them as a superior ● 7
☆14☆ I like to dominate my partner(s), especially in the bedroom ● 1
☆15☆ I like inflicting pain during sex/BDSM and seeing the results of it (marks/bruises, makeup running by tears, etc.) afterwards ● 2
☆16☆ I like to be sexually degraded and humiliated by my partner(s) sometimes ● 7
☆ 17☆ The messier sex is, with all sorts of bodily fluids, the better ● 3
☆18☆ I enjoy playing a different age than what I technically am ● 7
☆19☆ My sex life consisting solely of blowjobs and masturbation, sounds like a scenario I could be happy with ● 7
☆20☆ I like to be completely in charge in the bedroom, and order my partner(s) around ● 1
☆21☆ I like my partner(s) to be completely in charge in the bedroom, ordering me around ● 7
☆22☆ I enjoy being used as a urinal ● 1
☆23☆ I enjoy being verbally degraded or called humiliating names during sex/BDSM ● 7
☆24☆ There is no reason why sex would have to happen in private spaces, isolated from the outside world ● 7
☆25☆ I often behave in a****listic ways during sex (growling, howling, etc.) ● 2
☆26☆ In an ideal relationship, I should have no hard limits, my life should belong to my partner and they should decide what is good for me ● 7
☆27☆ Making my partner ingest my bodily fluids (spit, piss, cum/squirt, etc.) or getting these inside them (e.g. during sex) sounds like a major turn on ● 2
☆28☆ I like to sexually degrade and/or humiliate my partner(s) sometimes ● 2
☆29☆ I would like it when my partner is completely tied up during sex/BDSM ● 5
☆30☆ Being treated with little or no respect during sex/BDSM arouses me ● 7
☆31☆ I enjoy being kept as a pet: in a cage, eating out of a bowl, being petted/caressed, etc ● 4
☆32☆ I find the romantic aspect in a relationship much more important than the sexual or kinky aspects ● 5
☆33☆ I enjoy people seeing me being naked or having sex, even (or especially) when they didn't intend to do so ● 7
☆34☆ Being part of a group of slaves that serves one Master/Mistress, sounds like a life that would really suit me ● 7
☆35☆ Talking back to one's dominant in a teasingly disobeying way, should be part of the sub's fun ● 5
☆36☆ I'd like to submit to my partner 24/7 and see serving them as my life purpose ● 7
☆37☆ Being in fear of what my partner is going to do to me physically, is arousing ● 6
☆38☆ I enjoy dressing or behaving like a c***d, or engaging in c***d-appropriate activities such as coloring in a coloring book or going to a playground ● 6
☆39☆ I like to be totally helpless and at my partner's disposal, physically unable to resist what they do ● 7
☆40☆ I enjoy feeling like a predator hunting its prey ● 2
☆41☆ Physically restricting my partner during sex/BDSM (with clothes, attributes, rope, chains, etc.) is arousing ● 3
☆42☆ It's no big deal when things I try turn out bad for me. It's part of the risk and it's a necessary part of discovering what works and what doesn't ● 6
☆43☆ I have plenty of sexual fantasies that I would like to try out, more than most of my kinky peers ● 7
☆44☆ Assuming I was single, I would like to join an existing couple's or polygroup's relationship for sexual and/or emotional purposes ● 7
☆45☆ The idea of torturing someone sexually, is appealing ● 3
☆46☆ I enjoy verbally degrading my partner or calling them humiliating names during sex/BDSM ● 3
☆47☆ I believe that there is a natural order of things, which dictates that men are dominant and women are submissive ● 1
☆48☆ I enjoy and take pride in being a good domestic servant for my partner, taking care of all household chores like cooking, cleaning, etc ● 6
☆49☆ I have a thing for large age differences in sexual encounters or relationships ● 7
☆50☆ Being physically restricted during sex/BDSM (with clothes, attributes, rope, chains, etc.) is arousing ● 6
☆51☆ I enjoy keeping my partner as a pet: providing them with a cage, feeding them out of a bowl, petting/caressing them, etc ● 1
☆52☆ I enjoy watching people being naked or having sex, even (or especially) when they're unaware that I'm watching ● 7
☆53☆ I enjoy playing or acting like a pet a****l (dog, cat, pony, etc) ● 1
☆54☆ Treating my partner with little or no respect during sex/BDSM arouses me ● 3
☆55☆ I'd like my partner(s) to submit to me 24/7 and I'm willing to take the responsibility that comes with it ● 1
☆56☆ I enjoy it when people are watching me being naked or having sex ● 7
☆57☆ Ingesting my partner's bodily fluids (spit, piss, cum/squirt, etc.) or getting them inside me (e.g. during sex) sounds like a major turn on ● 2
☆58☆ I could not be always dominant or always submissive, I need both ● 1
☆59☆ I would like to be nothing but a 24/7 sex slave (i.e. not having any human interaction outside of sex and BDSM) ● 7
☆60☆ I love seeing the fear in my partner's eyes when they know I'm going to inflict pain on them ● 3
☆61☆ I would be willing to leave everything I have behind, to live the BDSM-life of my dreams ● 7
☆62☆ If part of my sexual desires are not fulfilled with my partner, I would want to see other people to fill the gaps ● 7
☆63☆ I find it adorable when my partner acts or dresses c***dlike, or when they engage in c***dlike activities such as coloring in a coloring book or playing on a playground ● 5
☆64☆ I would like to be completely tied up during sex/BDSM ● 6
☆65☆ I enjoy using my partner(s) as urinals ● 1
☆66☆ I like being forced into submission, much more than submitting spontaneously ● 6
☆67☆ I like forcing my partner into submission, much more than them submitting spontaneously ● 1
☆68☆ Living with a group of slaves owned by me and serving me, would be my ultimate life goal ● 1
☆69☆ I enjoy watching people being naked or having sex ● 7
☆70☆ I am, generally speaking, a very sexual person ● 7
☆71☆ I would like to serve in a formal setting with explicit slave training, prescribed physical positions and rituals, etc ● 7
☆72☆ I like it when my partner takes on a nurturing and guiding, almost parental role in the relationship ● 5
☆73☆ If I felt a project or website contributed significantly to the BDSM community as a whole, I would be willing to make significant financial donations to it ● 6
☆74☆ I want to meet more like-minded kinky people, and am willing to put effort in that ● 7
☆75☆ If a new awesome kink or BDSM project was launched, I would like to be kept up to date ● 7
☆76☆ I would like to work myself on a new BDSM-related project and I have ideas for such project (or already have it) or I would like to actively help out with an existing project ● 4
★ Indicate for each archetype how well it suits you. This step is optional. (They are randomly selected, don't overthink this.)
These questions are answered on a scale of 0-7 (0 = no idea, 1 = totally DISAGREE with statement, 4 = neutral, 7 = totally AGREE with statement]
☆77☆ Primal (Hunter): Primals are mainly focused on their natural instincts and they enjoy letting their inner a****l out during sex. The key part for primals play is that the participants show their raw, emotional sexual feelings during play. All of the labels, roles, and protocols go out the window, and the prey can become a snarling, growing, clawing a****l hell-bent on getting away from its predator (you) ● 1
☆78☆ Fluid Giver: Fluid givers enjoy playing with certain kinds of bodily fluids (spit, cum, piss, puke, you name it), in particular they enjoy their fluids being ingested by their partners, or inserting these fluids into their partners (e.g. during sex) ● 2
☆79☆ Fluid Receiver: Fluid receivers enjoy playing with certain kinds of bodily fluids (spit, cum, piss, puke, you name it), in particular they enjoy ingesting their partner's fluids or having these fluids inserted into them (e.g. during sex) ● 5
☆80☆ Kajira: Kajirae are (typically female) slaves in the Gorean subculture or role play. Their focus is on ritualistic servitude, strict gender inequality and unconditional submission ● 0
☆81☆ Brat: Brats are, in essence, naughty submissives. They find disobedience a form of playfulness rather than letting their dominant down, and require a compatible dominant who will not only teach them a lesson, but also accept that any number of lessons might still not necessarily change this behavior ● 6
☆★ LINK TO MY TEST AND RESULTS: http://bdsmtest.org/r/YNRwKykW ★☆
The test requires answers to be answered (unless otherwise specified) on a scale of 1-7 (1 = totally DISAGREE with statement, 4 = neutral, 7 = totally AGREE with statement]
★ PRELIM QUESTIONS:
☆☆ Gender [male OR female OR other] - male
☆☆ Age [under 20 OR 20-22 OR 23-25 OR 26-30 OR 31-35 OR 36-40 OR 41-45 OR 46-50 OR 51-55 OR 56-60 OR 61-65 OR 66-70 OR 71-75 OR over 75] - 36-40
☆☆ Orientation [Strictly heterosexual OR Heteroflexible/Bi-curious OR Bisexual/Pansexual OR Homoflexible OR Strictly lesbian/Gay OR Other/Prefer not to disclose] - Bisexual/Pansexual
★ THE ACTUAL TEST:
☆01☆ I like to be dominated, especially in the bedroom ● 7
☆02☆ I like receiving pain during sex/BDSM and seeing the results of it (marks/bruises, makeup running by tears, etc.) afterwards ● 5
☆03☆ If I could make some money from selling porn clips of myself, I definitely would ● 7
☆04☆ I don't have any sort of specific fetish or non-standard sexual turn-on ● 1
☆05☆ If I could not fulfil all of my partner's sexual desires, I would encourage them to see other people to fill the gaps ● 7
☆06☆ I want my partner to serve me and address me as a superior ● 1
☆07☆ I could be sexually submissive now, and be sexually dominant another time (either to the same, or to another partner) ● 1
☆08☆ I am willing to try anything once, even if I don't think I will like it ● 7
☆09☆ I enjoy feeling like a prey hunted by a predator ● 6
☆10☆ I would like to have sex with multiple people at the same time ● 7
☆11☆ The idea of being tortured sexually, is appealing ● 6
☆12☆ I will naturally take on a nurturing and guiding, almost parental role in a relationship ● 1
☆13☆ I feel the need to serve my partner and treat them with the highest respect, adressing them as a superior ● 7
☆14☆ I like to dominate my partner(s), especially in the bedroom ● 1
☆15☆ I like inflicting pain during sex/BDSM and seeing the results of it (marks/bruises, makeup running by tears, etc.) afterwards ● 2
☆16☆ I like to be sexually degraded and humiliated by my partner(s) sometimes ● 7
☆ 17☆ The messier sex is, with all sorts of bodily fluids, the better ● 3
☆18☆ I enjoy playing a different age than what I technically am ● 7
☆19☆ My sex life consisting solely of blowjobs and masturbation, sounds like a scenario I could be happy with ● 7
☆20☆ I like to be completely in charge in the bedroom, and order my partner(s) around ● 1
☆21☆ I like my partner(s) to be completely in charge in the bedroom, ordering me around ● 7
☆22☆ I enjoy being used as a urinal ● 1
☆23☆ I enjoy being verbally degraded or called humiliating names during sex/BDSM ● 7
☆24☆ There is no reason why sex would have to happen in private spaces, isolated from the outside world ● 7
☆25☆ I often behave in a****listic ways during sex (growling, howling, etc.) ● 2
☆26☆ In an ideal relationship, I should have no hard limits, my life should belong to my partner and they should decide what is good for me ● 7
☆27☆ Making my partner ingest my bodily fluids (spit, piss, cum/squirt, etc.) or getting these inside them (e.g. during sex) sounds like a major turn on ● 2
☆28☆ I like to sexually degrade and/or humiliate my partner(s) sometimes ● 2
☆29☆ I would like it when my partner is completely tied up during sex/BDSM ● 5
☆30☆ Being treated with little or no respect during sex/BDSM arouses me ● 7
☆31☆ I enjoy being kept as a pet: in a cage, eating out of a bowl, being petted/caressed, etc ● 4
☆32☆ I find the romantic aspect in a relationship much more important than the sexual or kinky aspects ● 5
☆33☆ I enjoy people seeing me being naked or having sex, even (or especially) when they didn't intend to do so ● 7
☆34☆ Being part of a group of slaves that serves one Master/Mistress, sounds like a life that would really suit me ● 7
☆35☆ Talking back to one's dominant in a teasingly disobeying way, should be part of the sub's fun ● 5
☆36☆ I'd like to submit to my partner 24/7 and see serving them as my life purpose ● 7
☆37☆ Being in fear of what my partner is going to do to me physically, is arousing ● 6
☆38☆ I enjoy dressing or behaving like a c***d, or engaging in c***d-appropriate activities such as coloring in a coloring book or going to a playground ● 6
☆39☆ I like to be totally helpless and at my partner's disposal, physically unable to resist what they do ● 7
☆40☆ I enjoy feeling like a predator hunting its prey ● 2
☆41☆ Physically restricting my partner during sex/BDSM (with clothes, attributes, rope, chains, etc.) is arousing ● 3
☆42☆ It's no big deal when things I try turn out bad for me. It's part of the risk and it's a necessary part of discovering what works and what doesn't ● 6
☆43☆ I have plenty of sexual fantasies that I would like to try out, more than most of my kinky peers ● 7
☆44☆ Assuming I was single, I would like to join an existing couple's or polygroup's relationship for sexual and/or emotional purposes ● 7
☆45☆ The idea of torturing someone sexually, is appealing ● 3
☆46☆ I enjoy verbally degrading my partner or calling them humiliating names during sex/BDSM ● 3
☆47☆ I believe that there is a natural order of things, which dictates that men are dominant and women are submissive ● 1
☆48☆ I enjoy and take pride in being a good domestic servant for my partner, taking care of all household chores like cooking, cleaning, etc ● 6
☆49☆ I have a thing for large age differences in sexual encounters or relationships ● 7
☆50☆ Being physically restricted during sex/BDSM (with clothes, attributes, rope, chains, etc.) is arousing ● 6
☆51☆ I enjoy keeping my partner as a pet: providing them with a cage, feeding them out of a bowl, petting/caressing them, etc ● 1
☆52☆ I enjoy watching people being naked or having sex, even (or especially) when they're unaware that I'm watching ● 7
☆53☆ I enjoy playing or acting like a pet a****l (dog, cat, pony, etc) ● 1
☆54☆ Treating my partner with little or no respect during sex/BDSM arouses me ● 3
☆55☆ I'd like my partner(s) to submit to me 24/7 and I'm willing to take the responsibility that comes with it ● 1
☆56☆ I enjoy it when people are watching me being naked or having sex ● 7
☆57☆ Ingesting my partner's bodily fluids (spit, piss, cum/squirt, etc.) or getting them inside me (e.g. during sex) sounds like a major turn on ● 2
☆58☆ I could not be always dominant or always submissive, I need both ● 1
☆59☆ I would like to be nothing but a 24/7 sex slave (i.e. not having any human interaction outside of sex and BDSM) ● 7
☆60☆ I love seeing the fear in my partner's eyes when they know I'm going to inflict pain on them ● 3
☆61☆ I would be willing to leave everything I have behind, to live the BDSM-life of my dreams ● 7
☆62☆ If part of my sexual desires are not fulfilled with my partner, I would want to see other people to fill the gaps ● 7
☆63☆ I find it adorable when my partner acts or dresses c***dlike, or when they engage in c***dlike activities such as coloring in a coloring book or playing on a playground ● 5
☆64☆ I would like to be completely tied up during sex/BDSM ● 6
☆65☆ I enjoy using my partner(s) as urinals ● 1
☆66☆ I like being forced into submission, much more than submitting spontaneously ● 6
☆67☆ I like forcing my partner into submission, much more than them submitting spontaneously ● 1
☆68☆ Living with a group of slaves owned by me and serving me, would be my ultimate life goal ● 1
☆69☆ I enjoy watching people being naked or having sex ● 7
☆70☆ I am, generally speaking, a very sexual person ● 7
☆71☆ I would like to serve in a formal setting with explicit slave training, prescribed physical positions and rituals, etc ● 7
☆72☆ I like it when my partner takes on a nurturing and guiding, almost parental role in the relationship ● 5
☆73☆ If I felt a project or website contributed significantly to the BDSM community as a whole, I would be willing to make significant financial donations to it ● 6
☆74☆ I want to meet more like-minded kinky people, and am willing to put effort in that ● 7
☆75☆ If a new awesome kink or BDSM project was launched, I would like to be kept up to date ● 7
☆76☆ I would like to work myself on a new BDSM-related project and I have ideas for such project (or already have it) or I would like to actively help out with an existing project ● 4
★ Indicate for each archetype how well it suits you. This step is optional. (They are randomly selected, don't overthink this.)
These questions are answered on a scale of 0-7 (0 = no idea, 1 = totally DISAGREE with statement, 4 = neutral, 7 = totally AGREE with statement]
☆77☆ Primal (Hunter): Primals are mainly focused on their natural instincts and they enjoy letting their inner a****l out during sex. The key part for primals play is that the participants show their raw, emotional sexual feelings during play. All of the labels, roles, and protocols go out the window, and the prey can become a snarling, growing, clawing a****l hell-bent on getting away from its predator (you) ● 1
☆78☆ Fluid Giver: Fluid givers enjoy playing with certain kinds of bodily fluids (spit, cum, piss, puke, you name it), in particular they enjoy their fluids being ingested by their partners, or inserting these fluids into their partners (e.g. during sex) ● 2
☆79☆ Fluid Receiver: Fluid receivers enjoy playing with certain kinds of bodily fluids (spit, cum, piss, puke, you name it), in particular they enjoy ingesting their partner's fluids or having these fluids inserted into them (e.g. during sex) ● 5
☆80☆ Kajira: Kajirae are (typically female) slaves in the Gorean subculture or role play. Their focus is on ritualistic servitude, strict gender inequality and unconditional submission ● 0
☆81☆ Brat: Brats are, in essence, naughty submissives. They find disobedience a form of playfulness rather than letting their dominant down, and require a compatible dominant who will not only teach them a lesson, but also accept that any number of lessons might still not necessarily change this behavior ● 6
☆★ LINK TO MY TEST AND RESULTS: http://bdsmtest.org/r/YNRwKykW ★☆
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