Is this happing to you

Hello guys been on here for a wile now. And not had any dates it seems evey one afraid or just I don't know. I know the world can be nasty place but iv found most people are good hearted and most of the time it's the people that you know who hurt you not the ones you just meet. I might have it all wrong or just naive or I'm just BFG so people just leave me Alon. It's sad but if your on here the fact is your most likely alone just like me looking for some one some thing we'll let me give you all some advice don't be afraid