So heres a question..........

So since the end of ********** personals I have turned to different places to potentially get to know and meet others into the same thing as me, weather male or female. I'm am more of the top roll and and played with a few toys here and there. I kinda liked them but not to the fullest extent. Why is it even on here no one is interested in more than a quick solution to being horny? Like make it kind of a thing, not like dating I'm leaving my significant other or changing my way of life type of relationship but get to know someone and have more meaning than a quickie. Is this seriously a hard thing to do nowadays? I'm interested in having fun and all that but is there anyone else who sees it the same way as me?