3000 days on Xhamster.

So, you want to have a profile on a porn site and want meet new people that are like minded. How do you go about that? Here’s some simple steps to be a good user of the site and just not another douche. This is our experience after 3000 days. Some do’s and don’ts if you will.

Not all folks chat. They may not find you interesting. Most likely you bring nothing to the table (we call them takers). Most frequently they don’t have so much as an avatar and if they do it’s of a dick.

Be respectful of everyone. This place can be amazing if you do. Most people are friendly in nature until you cross them. Treat others more kindly than you’d treat yourself.

Participate in commenting if a friend posts things. Actually get to know people. It’s a concept, learn and embrace it.

Be reciprocal. If someone shows you something simply say thank you at the very least. It’s the least you can do.

Have fun but not at others expense.

Participate and have fun getting to know other users. The opportunities are endless.

Post a few pics even if you’re in a snowmobile suit with a ski mask on. People gravitate towards real users and fakes and takers get no love.

Have fun!!! Let your freak flag fly and enjoy the opportunities before you. Be open to the possibilities but cautious as well. Get to know those you share with before you do any crazy shit!

Words of wisdom from long time users.