Starting again

My wife / sub here has had some serious medical issues the past year or so. We can NOT do a lot the things we love to do because of that (ir love swing, suspension bondage, breast play, etc.) I am NOT looking to divorce nor leave her but we have agreed I (male dom) need another sub / play mate / fwb:) She may want to watch or not - depends. Limits are expected and respected (although may be pushed a bit). Love to tie and tease in many positions - then slowly tease (mentally and psychically) . Have a pretty good selection of clamps, cuffs, floggers and toys here