A Few Tips On Riding For Bottoms
I love to get fucked in all positions. But if I had to choose one position as my favorite over all the others, I would choose riding. Me on top. Cowboy. Riding him face to face.
My choice is based on a few things. Riding a dick is one of the positions that allow me to take the most dick inside me. This is most important to any size obsessed bottom, and I am definitely a size obsessed bottom. All you bottoms like me who are custom made to take on the size XL tops know the feeling of pleasure and satisfaction when you sit on a huge dick, give it a few up and down thrusts, and feel all of his dick inside you. So far my personal best is 11 inches. Yours might be less or more than mine but if you're a size queen like I am you definitely should find out your maximum dick capacity from real experience.
I also love the intimacy of being fucked face to face. I'm very much into kissing and if your top is also into kissing then riding him face to face is perfect for the two of you.
And the physical sensation of riding a dick is different from other positions. I think this is because riding a dick stimulates the bottom's prostate which adds to his sexual pleasure. I should read more about this to understand it better.
But I do know that riding my top and making out with him at the same time has made me cum - without me or him touching my dick at all - several times, and that has not happened to me when I've been fucked in any other position.
Now let's talk about riding technique. I personally am not really into riding my top in a squatting position. I will do it if he really likes it, and it feels great to me at first, but I get tired after a while and I begin to focus too much on going further and less on everything else, which to me is not what I or my top wants me to focus on the most.
So I like to ride his dick with me on my knees. Here are a few tips that I have learned from my real life experience.
Don't do it on a soft couch. What you both want is for you to ride the entire length of his dick, from the tip all the way down to the balls. A soft couch will cause your knees to sink downwards and that means you won't get as high upwards as you would otherwise.
I found a solution by getting what I call a "dick riding chair." Which is any chair that has wide arms on each side - wide enough for your knees to lean on them comfortably. And the arms on the chair are also elevated - they are higher up than the seat where your top will be sitting. This combination creates a built in extension of your dick riding range. You have the leverage needed to reach the tip of his dick when you are riding up, and you also have a stable, elevated base for your knees when you are riding down. This enables you to ride further down his dick than a couch does.
You can also use a standard wooden chair with no arms that gets you similar results. Your feet will be on the floor and as long as the seat of the chair is at the proper height for the physical dimensions of you and your top, you will easily be able to ride the full length of the dick that you're sitting on.
I have a bowflex workout machine which is great for working out, and I have also found out that it also is a great way to ride a dick. You top lays down on his back, you are on top with your feet on the floor, and before you sit on his dick you grab both of the machine's handles with two hands and then you sit on his dick. If you set the handles on maximum weight, they act as additional leverage from above that you can use to ride your top up and down. It feels great for both me and for every top I have done this with so if you have a bowflex or any similar contraption in your house I recommend that you use it to add variety and pleasure to your sexual exploits.
Next, here is some advice on how to ride a dick for maximum pleasure - for you and for your top as well.
I am a total bottom and I love the submissive and passive nature of bottoming. But riding your top's dick is the only position that allows a bottom to take control from his partner. The bottom controls the tempo and the range. He can ride that dick slowly or quickly or frantically. And he can ride the entire length of that dick or ride only a portion of it. The bottom can also grind and gyrate his body when that dick is inside him. He can stop riding at any time - for a hot kiss or a slow grind or just to take a short break.
My advice to all you bottoms out there is to take advantage of the control you have when you ride your top, and to use that control by trying all the above variations. That's the only way to figure out which ones you and your top like, and once you figure that out you can both add to the enjoyment and pleasure every time he fucks you.
And finally, some advice about cumming. I love to cum when I'm riding his dick, and I've done that many times. My top has also climaxed when I was riding him, and every one of them told me afterwards that they loved cumming in that position. You won't know if and how much you and your top will enjoy cumming when you're riding his dick face to face until you do try it for real. So my advice is try it - and also try everything else you both want to try - and once you've done everything on that list, you will know what and how to fuck and enjoy it as much as possible.
I hope you all enjoyed reading this. Feel free to comment and or add your thoughts. And I wish all you bottoms out there get fucked real good and very often...
My choice is based on a few things. Riding a dick is one of the positions that allow me to take the most dick inside me. This is most important to any size obsessed bottom, and I am definitely a size obsessed bottom. All you bottoms like me who are custom made to take on the size XL tops know the feeling of pleasure and satisfaction when you sit on a huge dick, give it a few up and down thrusts, and feel all of his dick inside you. So far my personal best is 11 inches. Yours might be less or more than mine but if you're a size queen like I am you definitely should find out your maximum dick capacity from real experience.
I also love the intimacy of being fucked face to face. I'm very much into kissing and if your top is also into kissing then riding him face to face is perfect for the two of you.
And the physical sensation of riding a dick is different from other positions. I think this is because riding a dick stimulates the bottom's prostate which adds to his sexual pleasure. I should read more about this to understand it better.
But I do know that riding my top and making out with him at the same time has made me cum - without me or him touching my dick at all - several times, and that has not happened to me when I've been fucked in any other position.
Now let's talk about riding technique. I personally am not really into riding my top in a squatting position. I will do it if he really likes it, and it feels great to me at first, but I get tired after a while and I begin to focus too much on going further and less on everything else, which to me is not what I or my top wants me to focus on the most.
So I like to ride his dick with me on my knees. Here are a few tips that I have learned from my real life experience.
Don't do it on a soft couch. What you both want is for you to ride the entire length of his dick, from the tip all the way down to the balls. A soft couch will cause your knees to sink downwards and that means you won't get as high upwards as you would otherwise.
I found a solution by getting what I call a "dick riding chair." Which is any chair that has wide arms on each side - wide enough for your knees to lean on them comfortably. And the arms on the chair are also elevated - they are higher up than the seat where your top will be sitting. This combination creates a built in extension of your dick riding range. You have the leverage needed to reach the tip of his dick when you are riding up, and you also have a stable, elevated base for your knees when you are riding down. This enables you to ride further down his dick than a couch does.
You can also use a standard wooden chair with no arms that gets you similar results. Your feet will be on the floor and as long as the seat of the chair is at the proper height for the physical dimensions of you and your top, you will easily be able to ride the full length of the dick that you're sitting on.
I have a bowflex workout machine which is great for working out, and I have also found out that it also is a great way to ride a dick. You top lays down on his back, you are on top with your feet on the floor, and before you sit on his dick you grab both of the machine's handles with two hands and then you sit on his dick. If you set the handles on maximum weight, they act as additional leverage from above that you can use to ride your top up and down. It feels great for both me and for every top I have done this with so if you have a bowflex or any similar contraption in your house I recommend that you use it to add variety and pleasure to your sexual exploits.
Next, here is some advice on how to ride a dick for maximum pleasure - for you and for your top as well.
I am a total bottom and I love the submissive and passive nature of bottoming. But riding your top's dick is the only position that allows a bottom to take control from his partner. The bottom controls the tempo and the range. He can ride that dick slowly or quickly or frantically. And he can ride the entire length of that dick or ride only a portion of it. The bottom can also grind and gyrate his body when that dick is inside him. He can stop riding at any time - for a hot kiss or a slow grind or just to take a short break.
My advice to all you bottoms out there is to take advantage of the control you have when you ride your top, and to use that control by trying all the above variations. That's the only way to figure out which ones you and your top like, and once you figure that out you can both add to the enjoyment and pleasure every time he fucks you.
And finally, some advice about cumming. I love to cum when I'm riding his dick, and I've done that many times. My top has also climaxed when I was riding him, and every one of them told me afterwards that they loved cumming in that position. You won't know if and how much you and your top will enjoy cumming when you're riding his dick face to face until you do try it for real. So my advice is try it - and also try everything else you both want to try - and once you've done everything on that list, you will know what and how to fuck and enjoy it as much as possible.
I hope you all enjoyed reading this. Feel free to comment and or add your thoughts. And I wish all you bottoms out there get fucked real good and very often...
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