The ONE trick to make every woman cum from oral fr
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The ONE trick to make every woman cum from oral
I can already hear your knuckles cracking. You're ready to comment how dumb it is to think there's one thing that could make any woman cum from oral.
But here it is, the one simple trick:
Take 30 minutes to get to know her lady bits.
There, that's it. Take 30 minutes to learn her pussy.
Let's approach every woman's vajayjay like a blank sheet of paper yeah? You don't know what's he likes yet. Really, you don't. Every woman is so different. Way more different than men are between each other.
With some women we need to start extremely slowly, and then after 10 minutes of going slow and soft, increase intensity (i.e. speed, pressure etc.) over time. Then when she's close, we need to keep going at the same speed and pressure, and not increase or change it anymore at all. Keep doing exactly what you're doing.
With some we need to keep it ridiculously, how-does-she-even-feel-this, feather light the entire time, any amount of even medium intensity at any point is too much - all the way to orgasm, barely (but definitely) touching her skin with our tongue.
With some we need to stay at the same intensity for a long time, then when she's getting close, rev it up a little bit to push her over the edge.
Some like to have their vaginal opening played with. Some don't.
Some like the whole "up, down, up, down" flicking thing on the clit we know from porn with our tongue. For many this is too intense.
Some like a finger inside, on the g-spot. Some don't want any penetration during oral.
See what I'm getting at? Every woman is completely different. With guys there's differences too, sure, but they're nowhere near as pronounced. Most guys get off the same from getting a blowjob. Lots of spit, lots of suction, don't neglect the balls. Not so for women.
Let me repeat this again because it's so important.
Take 30 minutes to get to know her pussy.
That means trying different things for a few minutes and encouraging her to communicate. You'll likely be the first guy ever who asked her to communicate what feels good, so don't be surprised if you don't get many answers at first. Keep encouraging her to give feedback, keep trying things.
But take. 30. Minutes. Or 40. Or 60. Keep learning her.
Good things to try:
Make out with her pussy. Put little kisses everywhere on it. French her cunt, imagine you're making out with her mouth and do exactly that. Gently. Show her love.
Compliment the way her pussy looks, tastes, feels, sounds, tell her you love it.
Move your tongue in circles around her clit - way softer and slower than you probably think you should. This is my #1 thing that gets a girl over the edge to cum.
Move your tongue left-right-left-right over her clit. In a 1-second rhythm with light pressure and lots of spit. This is my #2 go-to to get a girl to cum.
Save the up-down-up-down clit flicking thing for very late into your session, it's intense and ridiculously overrated.
After every 5-10 minutes of eating her out, make your way up and down her thighs, kiss and suck on her outer labia, work on the area around her pussy. Give her some space for half a minute. Blow air on her exposed bits. The clit is just the iceberg of a network of nerves that runs throughout her entire vaginal area and much of her inner thighs. Basically every 5-10 minutes, give her 30-40 seconds of quiet, turn down the intensity. Then slowly continue. Usually it takes 4-5 "rounds" until she's there.
Start with lots of variety, finish with doing the same, gentle motions for a minute or two or three. Many need to get worked up to be able to take the intensity of feeling the same thing for minutes on end. Overstimulation is a thing for women so much more than for men.
Good questions to ask
Would you like it slower or faster?
Would you enjoy less or more pressure?
Do you enjoy circles around the clit or if I go right over it with my tongue?
Finger inside yes or no?
And please, enjoy that as if you're eating at a Michelin Star restaurant. You're in the presence of divinity.
The ONE trick to make every woman cum from oral
I can already hear your knuckles cracking. You're ready to comment how dumb it is to think there's one thing that could make any woman cum from oral.
But here it is, the one simple trick:
Take 30 minutes to get to know her lady bits.
There, that's it. Take 30 minutes to learn her pussy.
Let's approach every woman's vajayjay like a blank sheet of paper yeah? You don't know what's he likes yet. Really, you don't. Every woman is so different. Way more different than men are between each other.
With some women we need to start extremely slowly, and then after 10 minutes of going slow and soft, increase intensity (i.e. speed, pressure etc.) over time. Then when she's close, we need to keep going at the same speed and pressure, and not increase or change it anymore at all. Keep doing exactly what you're doing.
With some we need to keep it ridiculously, how-does-she-even-feel-this, feather light the entire time, any amount of even medium intensity at any point is too much - all the way to orgasm, barely (but definitely) touching her skin with our tongue.
With some we need to stay at the same intensity for a long time, then when she's getting close, rev it up a little bit to push her over the edge.
Some like to have their vaginal opening played with. Some don't.
Some like the whole "up, down, up, down" flicking thing on the clit we know from porn with our tongue. For many this is too intense.
Some like a finger inside, on the g-spot. Some don't want any penetration during oral.
See what I'm getting at? Every woman is completely different. With guys there's differences too, sure, but they're nowhere near as pronounced. Most guys get off the same from getting a blowjob. Lots of spit, lots of suction, don't neglect the balls. Not so for women.
Let me repeat this again because it's so important.
Take 30 minutes to get to know her pussy.
That means trying different things for a few minutes and encouraging her to communicate. You'll likely be the first guy ever who asked her to communicate what feels good, so don't be surprised if you don't get many answers at first. Keep encouraging her to give feedback, keep trying things.
But take. 30. Minutes. Or 40. Or 60. Keep learning her.
Good things to try:
Make out with her pussy. Put little kisses everywhere on it. French her cunt, imagine you're making out with her mouth and do exactly that. Gently. Show her love.
Compliment the way her pussy looks, tastes, feels, sounds, tell her you love it.
Move your tongue in circles around her clit - way softer and slower than you probably think you should. This is my #1 thing that gets a girl over the edge to cum.
Move your tongue left-right-left-right over her clit. In a 1-second rhythm with light pressure and lots of spit. This is my #2 go-to to get a girl to cum.
Save the up-down-up-down clit flicking thing for very late into your session, it's intense and ridiculously overrated.
After every 5-10 minutes of eating her out, make your way up and down her thighs, kiss and suck on her outer labia, work on the area around her pussy. Give her some space for half a minute. Blow air on her exposed bits. The clit is just the iceberg of a network of nerves that runs throughout her entire vaginal area and much of her inner thighs. Basically every 5-10 minutes, give her 30-40 seconds of quiet, turn down the intensity. Then slowly continue. Usually it takes 4-5 "rounds" until she's there.
Start with lots of variety, finish with doing the same, gentle motions for a minute or two or three. Many need to get worked up to be able to take the intensity of feeling the same thing for minutes on end. Overstimulation is a thing for women so much more than for men.
Good questions to ask
Would you like it slower or faster?
Would you enjoy less or more pressure?
Do you enjoy circles around the clit or if I go right over it with my tongue?
Finger inside yes or no?
And please, enjoy that as if you're eating at a Michelin Star restaurant. You're in the presence of divinity.
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