Looking for a Friend with benefits or a few

I have been looking for a while with no luck. I want a friend with benefits but most people thinks I mean a fuck buddy but what I want is an actual friend I can hang out and be myself around, maybe go on dates with them and yes I will have sex but I am wanting people who aren't rude assholes. I'm into comics, trying to get back into video games, horror movies, ballet, music(I'm a musician), art of all types, MTG. I am naturally curious so I get interested in things very easy. If you want to know anything feel free to ask.