Going out as a sissy

I absolutely love going out all dolled up as a sissy CD and at the very least putting on some incredily sexy lingerie under some tight normal clothes.
My biggest problem right now as a panty boi trying to become a good sissy is meeting men.
I have met up and had an ok time on average but i think ive only really had a good time once.
It takes me a lot to get over the anxiety over the danger of meeting someone from online but i've been lied to and "catfished" and it's really awkward an no fun.

I have such a desire to meet a daddy and be his little fuck toy but i've noticed that a lot of men will say anything to try and get me over instead of being honest with what they want and trying to see if i'm a good fit for that.

I dunno, maybe i'm expecting too much.
any thoughts on how to get myself out there more and get over this anxiety?