Unsurprisingly, ever since Blog 10 this has been one of the most requested topics. The problem with this has always been that I never never really knew what to write about this because as many questions this may have inspired from some users, most of them were either way to specific to write a Blog around or so generic that they could be answered in half a scentence, something i usually just did via p.m., so it was genuinely difficult to flesh this out in a way that made sense to me. My first idea was to just write down something that would amount to "a day in the life", basically giving you a… 続きを読む

We've made it to the Crowdfunding part of the exersice and folks, we do need your help on this one. It's not easy to get a magazine off the ground and any help you are willing to provide is eagerly welcomed Contribute from XH and get 15 month subscription for 12 month price! https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/thorns-roses-bdsm-safety-education-entertainment/x/7952575 We will be designing a T Shirt and some contributors will get those - stay tuned! FINALLY the template is finished and uploaded, now a few more days to double check everything is working. ThornsRoses.com… 続きを読む

Hey folks! So I made it to 20... slowly and steadily. Although, given the pace lately, I'm playing a little fast and loose with the word steadily. But all the more solid with slowly. Sorry about that, I've been having trouble deciding on topics. Like I've said in #19, most of the “basic” stuff is taken care of and it's getting increasingly difficult to pick topics that would interest more than just a handful of readers. But I wouldn't be myself if I didn't have a very practical approach to that problem. I'll stop caring. I'm not saying that this is my last blog. I'm hoping to keep this r… 続きを読む

Is it just me or do I really take way too long to write these things lately? I guess it has something to do with most of the basic topics being done already and it's hard to find something that isn't completely out of whack or has at least a borderline broad interest. Many of you pitched me topics and I even tried to work with them, but for the time being, they are not really suitable for a broad audience. So I figured, I'd go back to basics. It started out as a “How-to” guide, and perhaps it should continue as such. Proper Punishment This is, according to some of you, a major issue… 続きを読む

Well... We've been asked when we will continue the story about Kate, and the answer is: we won't. At least not anytime soon. We started that story because it was both the next step in the time line of our development as a couple, as well as a good example of what can go wrong during a session. But during the writing process, Melissa began to feel that this event is still just a little too intimate to share just yet. So we decided to leave it as it is for now and instead I translated one of the fantasy stories that I have written over the years. Chapter 1 Descent into Darkness Liny… 続きを読む

Four months had past since we had our first adventure. Ever since then he continued to tie me up on a regular basis, taking me down to the basement roughly once per week. But it had never been as intense as the first time again. Instead we worked on ' letting go '. Some might call it an orgasm torture to be made to come for two hours straight, but honestly, to me it was like heaven on earth. We quickly got to the point where sex had changed from a fun hobby to my favorite pass time activity. I jumped Mike whenever I felt the urge and he always happily replied. Until that night, at least. He h… 続きを読む

Given that this is not my native language, I hope you can forgive the occasional grammatical and/or vocabulary issue. This story was written by myself after being inspired by some of the amazing stories posted here. Similarities to other stories are accidental, as this is based on a real life encounter. Characters: (me) Mike, born and raised in a small German town (my wife) Melissa, born in Kenya, raised in London and living with me. She insisted I write this from her pov, as that proved to be the more interesting view. Our names, of course, were changed. The rest happened exactly… 続きを読む

six months... Holy crap have I taken my time. I planed on writing a lot during our vacation, but like always ambition and fact are two different things. But let me skip the apology, since most if you won't read it anyway, and let me get to the blog. Before I start, let me say that this is a very serious topic. I'm prepared for disagreements and I'd welcome a debate afterwards. So... Where to begin... You might be asking yourself what the title is referring to. Well, its about the pros and cons of bdsm for vict1ms of sexual vi0lence. Its a controversy that's been overshadowing the li… 続きを読む

*Thorns & Roses BDSM Magazine BDSM: Education Safety & Entertainment* Yes, the title is BDSM, but there will be plenty of content for my Vanilla friends as well! Read my about me section for more.. It’s almost here, the long awaited newest offering on the BDSM lifestyle.  *Thorns & Roses* will bring you the very latest in the world of Bondage, Discipline, Sado-Masochism. Many of you here at XH have gone through the process with us, the ups, the downs, gathering the materials for the content.  Since you have lived through that part, let me offer you a preview! Our monthly col… 続きを読む

It's time to fight my frustration again. And this time, xhammies, it's up to you to take the hit. Because I've just about had it with your moronic, self indulgent, narrow minded and hippocratic dumbassery. Yes, it's a fuckin' porn site. But I don't need to be reminded that it is every time I look at a profile picture. Seriously, who wants to stare at an erect cock every time he checks out a friends profile? But, alright, I can get over the fact that some of you associate "porn site" with "show of parts of yourself that people don't want to see", and yet I get hung up on that issue. Maybe it's… 続きを読む

B, BD, DS, SM, BDSM? Hey friends! Come, sit and join hands, it's time for Uncle Mike's vocabulary school again. Today's topic: Bondage, Bondage-Discipline, Domination-Submission, Sadomaso and BDSM. Or as I like to call it "Why is it so hard to understand the difference?" I know, I promised a viewer's choice episode, and that's what 18-21 will be (yes, there were a lot of resposes) but for now let me focus on one thing that's been bugging me for months now. Roughly twice per week someone makes it into the final interview for becoming a friend. Usually without noticing, because it's just… 続きを読む

On to the new year's special. But what do I talk about? I'm a little low on topics lately to tell you the truth. All that are left are instructns or guides to speific techniques, but thos are long and complicated. And I think we've already established that I'm way past lazy with those... so I'll leave it up to you folks. What do you ant to know? Personal backstories? A certain topic? Please send me your requests/ideas via PM or leave a comment. Also, I have more time now to spend working on the subs diary so look forward to new releases there soon. That's it for today, I'm looking fo… 続きを読む

you roll over. I attempt to sit up but you gently press me down again. Your hand gently moves down my body, giving me goosebumps. Before I can try to get up again, I feel the leather of the bracelet on my ankle. All will to pretend to fight a little is gone and I'm yours. I close my eyes and feel your hands exploring my body. Up my legs, down again and back up. I feel you playing with the piercing in my bellybutton, massaging my stomach and further up to my breasts. I take a deep breath when I feel you touching them. Gentle, almost playful, you explore every inch and I completely relax. Then I… 続きを読む

Welcome back to part 2. Before I start with the pets themselves, I'd like to cover a few general things that only apply to pets rather than slaves and pets. First, let's talk about intensity. It depends on both the pets and masters preferences and is usually agreed on beforehand. With intensity I mean both the general treatment as well as punishments. Pet play can be quite intensive and in some cases it can go as far as the pet eating a****l food. Although it is pretty rare. Usually it extends only so far that it includes how the pet behaves, meaning walking on all fours, barking, purr… 続きを読む

This topic has been brought to my attention by a new friend of ours, and since I happen to live with two experts on the subject, I figured, why not? For all the complainers among you, I know that this is a very specific fetish. I also know it doesn't apply to most of you. Next time will be a general topic again, but for now I'll take care of the pet girls. As usual I don't claim to either be correct or complete with my explanation. It's a summation based on experience. Alright, let's start then. Pet girls are a subclass of regular slave girls. So what is a slave girl? Well, she's pretty… 続きを読む

"Are you nervous?" I ask, when you wouldn't talk for five minutes. You look down and blush. "Don't be. I won't bite you. Come on, let me show you around!" I take you by the hand and lead you through our house. Show you the kitchen, the bedrooms, the livingroom and over time you begin to relax. We are in our garden when you speak for the first time. "Your house is so beautiful." You say, admiring the roses. I turn to you and kiss you unexpectedly. You blush again and I giggle "You're too cute, sweety." I take your hands and put them on my waist. Then I hug you, kissing you again, longer thi… 続きを読む

I've stewed over this from the beginning. Should I? Because if I'm honest with myself, I never thought I could do this justice. I usually write about my own experiences, but this just isn't me. So I tended to either ignore or brush over it. Now... I know that this is one sided, and I apologize for it, but try to understand me. I didn't consider them to be my audience and that my blogs would interest anyone from this, admittedly big, group is something I never expected. But my blog about 50 shades seemed to have hit a nerve. I've received some critique about, and I quote "Trashing that amazing… 続きを読む

Part 3 I could have kicked myself for losing that easily. And in front of Kate too... Then again, 20 hits in silence, how was I even supposed to do that? I convinced myself that round two's only purpose was to make sure I wouldn't end up with ten points. The blindfold was lifted and Kate stood in front of me. "Does it hurt bad?" She asked, this time gently stroking my face. Her voice sounded more like she was curious than concerned, so I forced myself to smile and said "Not at all. He just caught me by surprise." She grabbed my throat and choked me while her other hand scratched along the… 続きを読む

Why the list again? Because I feel I left it incomplete. Sure, I've talked about what should be on it, I've tasked about it's importance. But one of the most frequently asked questions is "how do we write it?" Well... normally I'd say that's up to you, but maybe it's better to hand out some sort of guideline. Not step by step instructions, but an idea how to approach it. And I highly recommend having this list regardless if you are just interested in some role playing or want to live it. The less serious you are about it, the more you can reduce it to it's basics, but having at least hard limi… 続きを読む

I can't believe I'm doing this... I promised myself I wouldn't go near that thing. But if I want to clear up misconceptions about bdsm, how can I not? After all, it has started a flood of women being interested in bdsm under completely false pretenses... It's astonishing how much one simple thing can take a subject like bondage, make it so generally assessable and yet display it in such a wrong, inaccurate and, in my honest opinion, purposefully misleading way. You might have guessed it, it's time to talk about 50 shades of grey. To be fair, it's a good story. It is well written, has… 続きを読む