Like I said in my last blog, BDSM is playtime. But what has to be done BEFORE playtime by resposible adults is what is the most important. Both parties must sit down and talk about what will happen during a scene. This is very important for the fact that noone should be hurt to the extreme and not having surprises on them. This is a very dangerous thing and should NEVER be done. That is why there is something called SSC. It is the BIBLE to all playtime scenes. If you have every seen (and i'm sure you have) the blue ball that is divides into 3 parts,these parts insures that the scene will… 続きを読む

I would like to set the record straight as to what BDSM really is. Most people, who are NOT in the "Lifestyle" are under the misconception that BDSM "IS" a Lifestyle. The truth of the matter is..BDSM is the "playtime" of the D/s Lifestyle. It stands for "Bondage/Discipline.. Sado/Masochist. It is governed by SSC wich is the holy bible of BDSM. SSC (Safe, Sane, Consensual) is praticed by those who are in the D/s (Dominant/submissive)Lifestyle and it basically insures that both parties will have a good playtime and noone will be injured to the point of being hospitalized or dead. I will pos… 続きを読む