cascadehighlander

I welcome opportunities for authentic relating. I respond to all sincere inquiries from women/couples.

Seeking people that i can get to know a little over the phone/videochat to start. I can google chat, zoom or whatsapp. Meetup possible-but my travel logistics are complicated-much easier if you live in the Porland, OR area or want to travel here. Once i know you a little, I may be able to share travel expenses.

I'm flexible on orientation of the women(heterosexual /bisexual/pansexual are all fine with me but the site asked me to pick one). Self improvement/making the most i can of myself is of very great importance to me.

In time, I'm very open to longer term domestic partnership with the right lady. I have a nearly debt-free mountain cabin and would want you to be more than a glorified roommate. I can be generous w/ my dates in terms of things like meal/travel expenses, but i need to see you pursuing worthwhile goals(like paying for college) to feel good about higher levels of generousity.

My recent relationship patterns have mostly been FWB with women in happy, open relationships/LTR in recent years. I'm really flexible how a relationship progresses with a happily attached woman. Her happiness in your primary relationship is a major part of attraction for me in that context. I like adding a little spice to a good marriage. I have substantial swinging experience and am open to more.

I'm supportive and like women with postive, interesting goals. Well and broadly educated, i can talk intelligently on many subjects. If you like high IQ men you may find me interesting.

I'm very safety conscious around Covid-19, STI etc, non-possessive, but open to a LTR/marriage with the right woman in time. I'm newly divorced. I'm immediately most concerned with establishing a lasting friendships that go beyond just sex or a transaction. I really like hearing from someone over time even if our relationhip doesn't take fire.

I value intelligence, goals, kindness beyond packaging. Some folks think of me as an alpha maie, but I'm not as hierarchy/competition oriented as the friends I've had who really were: I can be as dominant, but I'm more flexible and i tend to just ignore hierarchies.

I'm now down more than 95 lbs/40kg from my peak weight. If weight loss of interest to you, you may find my experience interesting.

Mi español es realmente malo pero agradezco la comunicación con hispanohablantes. Felizmente puedo compensar a un compañero de conversación paciente.