insanelain

Hi I am a sexual sadest and have been in the D's lifestyle actively 13 years. I always knew I was different Evan as a kid playing Cowboys and Indians and tieing the neighbor girl to the tree in the front yard and really liking it and not knowing why. As I grew up in my journey I have learned a lot and gained a grate deal if patients. I do not feel like I need 100%control to be in control. What I'm looking for may be harder for a sub/slave to give. I want you to have a life beyond me as well as with me. I don't want to control your every move. The trill for me is having a obedient and prompt reply when I do dominate. I'm easy to please and can have a soft hand or a hard hand depending on who I'm with and our agreement. I have never been involved with any one who ever had or used a safe word. I feel we should take the time to know each other enough that we know our limits and though we push them never exceed them. I do not believe in hard limits as much as hard fears and I believe when talked out most can be over came with time trust and love. I have a grate sense of humour and I do stand up comedy part time and my real job is I put in sewer lines and do emergency repairs for a private company. I love the out doors a lot. I really like to camp out but I really don't require my mate to be into the out doors as I am. Though I would like to find some one that would at least make one out door day for us even if its a walk in the park hang out at the mall or something major like a camp trip or private getaway. Fill free to ask me any thing you would like and please say hi. Id love to get to know you much better.