kamigan

I am 6’4 brown teddy bear. Lol.
As far as me, as a vanilla person; I am a giant goof in real life, and I love to have fun or do spontaneous things. Reading fills a lot of my free time, both for work and pleasure. Literature has a wonderful way of transporting you to new worlds. I was a soldier in the US Army and now a student in college, and I'm studying cybersecurity.

I am a giant nerd, fixing and building computers in vanilla life, building plastic model, reading manga, and gaming when I can. I am a big fan of anything sci-fi and fantasy, especially Star Trek and Dune. My likes are anime, and hanging with my friends, but who does not? I can cook and bake and my friends like the food and desserts I make, so maybe you will. I do not really have a lot of free time because of school and work, but I like to enjoy my days off simply and make time for the right things.

As far as me, as a kinkster who slowly evolved over the last 15 or so years since I have been involved in this lifestyle. I am a switch by nature, but I definitely lean more towards the Dominant end. I am also a sadist and a masochist, getting an adrenaline rush out of either aspect. I live by a moral code in line with Army Values. I institute rules and protocols to structure a dynamic, which holds us both accountable for our words and actions. I enjoy control and power, though the thought of losing the control I have to someone else is what excites me about bottoming. Electro play is my rasion d'etre, I enjoy topping them from both a sensation or pain perspective, depending on who I play with. I also do impact (caning, paddles, spanking, slapping, etc.), Sensation play (playing with feathers and other soft objects, light blindfolding and bondage with scarves, or temperature play with ice or hot wax).

I'd like to get to know someone make new friends and possibly find a dynamic with someone. I have met many wonderful people here and look forward to meeting many more.

"Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment." Buddha
"The walls we build around us to keep out the sadness also keep out the joy" -Jim Rohn
"Insanity: a perfect rational adjustment to an insane world" - R.D. Lang
"I hate people. People make me pro-nuclear" -Margaret Smith
"Reality bites with a variety of sizes of teeth"-Tony Follari
"Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall" by Confucius.
"Be kind to unkind people, they probably need it the most" by Ashleigh Brilliant.
"Happiness can subside, but frustration never let’s go" "Awake, yet never truly alive, I seek valuation beyond reality" "Illusion is the first of all pleasures." -Oscar Wilde
"Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself." -Harvey Fierstein
“The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong at the broken places. But those that will not break it kills. It kills the very good and the very gentle and the very brave impartially. If you are none of these you can be sure it will kill you too but there will be no special hurry.” ― Ernest Hemingway
" For one who thinks only of the outcome of his own pleasure, & ignores the welfare of his partner, should be called a traitor rather than a lover " ~ Andreas Capellanus
“I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past, I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain.” ― Frank Herbert, Dune
Not sure what else to write, but feel free to write.

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