leashseeker

Currently I am in a loving relationship and my wife knows about this aspect of my life, and she is supportive of my needs within the lifestyle. She is purely vanilla and does not want to partake in the lifestyle. Over the few months, our relationship has grown more fluid and towards open relationship. She is open to meeting and socializing with the person I serve but that will be strictly up to her. She does not ask but asks general questions when I attend events.
I am submissive and shy until I get to know you then I will open up a little at a time. Call it timidity, call it suspicion but that is just how I am. I spent several years overseas some fine places some good and that plays a factor into my suspicion and timidity. Recently, I have considered this to hurdle in meeting others in the lifestyle, as I tend to flock to people I know and unless they introduce me and I join their conversation I do not meet others.