lennyz53

When I think about how to describe myself, I have to try to step out of who I am and think about how people might view me. This is why I try to remind myself that people will judge you based on how you act and the way you present yourself, whether it is fair or not. This whole dating and/or love journey if you could call it that, I think we invest too much into it sometimes. Some spend so much time on the little things, hair, body type, degrees awarded and don't take the time to just say "not everyone's perfect". Prince Charming isn't going to ride out on his white horse and whisk you away to some magical castle, because that is a fairy tale. We like fairy tales because they give us hope, or what the perfect life may be. But they are not real, and living in a fairy tale is no way to go through life. Okay, I'm going to try a different approach here; let me just say that I'm very lonely and tired of it. I'm 31 years old, 5'7", brown hair, blue eyes, a lil chubby (about 300 lbs.or more) but gonna be losing a lot of it soon, kind, intelligent, funny, love movies and music. I thirst for companionship. I want someone who will be around when I need her, and who isn't afraid to ask me for support of any kind. Tired of one-night stands and lies and games. I'm not the most handsome guy in the world, but I feel that I am reasonably attractive in my own way.If you cant deal with that get lost. I need a woman between 25 and 35 who lives in Philadelphia, Pa. I'm kinda shy but open up once I get to know you. I don't like drama in my life. I enjoy boating, the beach, movies, music, dinning out, sports, camping, travel, vacations, family values, honesty and relaxing at home. I am very down to earth and caring. I have a huge heart but am very picky about who I give it too. It has been broken so many times. I can be very romantic and love to suprise you with candy, flowers or whatever comes to mind. I have a great sense of humor and can always make someone having a bad day smile.