robblerobble

Phd and published academic transitioning to the private sector.

Besides my research and teaching I enjoy various outdoor hobbies and competitive activities, cooking, dinner parties, and going to shows.

With respect to bdsm, my preferred dynamic is DD/lg, but I have no interest in age-play. I really enjoy how the dynamic creates a platform for communication, and for giving/soliciting support and affection. That said, I strive for complete devotion from ownership of my sub and the casual degradation the dynamic allows for is both useful and fun. I really enjoy rules, regular training tasks, and the punishments that accompany them. Pet-play and cute, degrading nicknames should be expected. Among my faves

daily edgings,
orgasm denial,
public play/humiliation,
cute lingerie,
the primal chase/manhandling/wrestling to the ground,
face fucking,
reading aloud together.
making my partner aware she's wanted and appreciated.
Anyway, I'm not a Dom in the sense that I have a Sub, I just enjoy being dominant. Natural expressions of dominance and submission, affection and devotion are most often preferred over those obtained through a power dynamic imposed by some predetermined scenario to role-play within.