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Sometimes it's fun to open a conversation with a shocker like a declaration that I am in a same sex marriage, and then after an initial reaction of confusion, to follow with the explanation that I've been married for a long time, and we've had the same sex over and over again for many years. Now that's true except nothing lasts forever; and when one partner has lost interest and can no longer do it, the other gets frustrated. When it is just a matter of due course and no Body's fault otherwise then the relationship changes but the commitment remains. So in my life at present I am the frustrated one without a sex partner and it is me wishing for lost love while remaining present for that special other who now just needs to be loved. So there you go and that's why I'm here ...

Notwithstanding my thoughts on what might be my idea of an ideal person for me there is the greater question of who might be the most ideal person for any Body as well as for every Body ever ... in my humble opinion that some Body would have to be ... Marilyn Monroe ... she was without a doubt by far the sexiest and most influential person of the 20th century quite simply because she used all of her incredible gifts to totally transform misguided attitudes about sex from something viewed as bad and/or immoral to that which is probably in fact our greatest and most important gift ....

Her courage and foresight launched Playboy magazine and with it a sexual revolution recognizing and celebrating the awesome beauty of the human form as a gift meant to be celebrated and enjoyed ... in her case the giver is the gift