xirixseven

Married over four years with a couple of significant relationships before.

1
I am a candaulist and my wife knows this, and twice a year she goes to hot springs with me and under certain rules, strips naked in front of others for hot springs. Rules: 200 miles plus from where we live; no cameras; must be another couple or couples (M/F) nearby - i.e., not a group of single guys at the springs. Message me with discussions related to candaulism.

2
We have had two MMFF foursomes in our first year of marriage. Message me with discussions related to foursomes.

3
We have role played agreed upon before hand my wife's desire to be "raped". No violence and only role play. I know the rules here at X-Ham, so I want to be clear this was part of a planned game experience. My wife enjoyed this both times we have done it. Message me with discussions related to kind of ROLE PLAY. [X-Ham Peeps: If this is inappropriate, just say so and I'll take it down.]

4
My girlfriend before my wife was into getting turned on by asking me to help allow other men, strangers, to see her nude, spy on her showering, or similar horseplay. She was turned on by humiliation, and had an ENF fetish. She is the only woman I had a relationship with who was turned on by candaulism. (I had to beg my wife to do this with me.) Message me with discussions related to your wife or gf being voyeured or getting a rush off of her ENF or HNF moment.

5
The same girlfriend in #4 was turned on by a time when I surreptitiously overheard a female doctor and nurse make a humiliating comment about my body. When I told my girlfriend what they said, instead of giving me any sympathy, she laughed about it and arranged for me to be humiliated twice during our 3 year relationship by arranging me to be naked and unable to cover up in front of one of her girlfriends. Message me with discussions related to SPH.

I live in southern California, go to Burning Man regional events and play in the Las Vegas area with friends. I am an expert on the California Constitution and make my living ghost writing appellate briefs for attorneys who do not like writing their own briefs on appeal, and the subject matter turns on a question of California constitutional law. It's boring to most people but I love it.

I plan to put up a verification photo very soon.

Tom